"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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By NC'ing do you risk other guys who haven't messed up getting in there?

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I'm wary that you can only control what you do. IF she has lowered IL from the week before and you know there's another guy in her life who hasn't f'd up yet, can NC really work or won't that just let him in further?

IT seems if you walk away that you let other guys in to take your spot, give him time to escalate etc. Will walking away and NC really raise her IL?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No Contact means you are DONE! She's been dismissed from your life with no hope whatsoever of ANY kind of relationship. Maybe you are thinking of LJBFing her? No Contact is No Contact where she goes, what she does, and who she sees from there doesen't matter.
 
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by NC'ing do you risk other guys who haven't messed up getting in there?


Yes, absolutely, and getting over this fear, or at least projecting a lack of it toward a woman, is why NC works. The other guys are probably AFCs anyway.
 
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pikachu69 said:
IT seems if you walk away that you let other guys in to take your spot, give him time to escalate etc. Will walking away and NC really raise her IL?
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Your already done at this point.

NC is not full proof. Neither is trying to steal her back from her new guy.

NC will allow you to move on, keep your pride, and if the new guy doesn't pan out, you'll be the first thing on her mind.

Contacting her if she's into this other dude will likely kill whatever IL she still has as now she feels bad for hurting you, and you take your pride/frame and toss it out the window.
 
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What part of NO CONTACT is so difficult for you to understand? You're not trying to raise her IL by walking away, you dimwit! You walk away to LOWER YOUR IL in her, move on, and find another woman! You write thread after thread about the same stupid hor, asking the same stupid questions. Read the fvcking DJ bible, then read it again!

No contact means 'next,' 'later,' 'have a nice life,' 'kick rocks,' 'go bang the football team.' OF COURSE she's gonna go get fvcked by another guy. She probably already is anyway. If she gets with another guy, she will be doing you a favor, because, she'll leave you alone hopefully, and MAYBE you will take the fvcking hint, and game other women. Eat a bowl of clue flakes.

IF YOU'RE NOT MAKING PROGRESS WITH THE GIRL, GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HER, AND TRY FOR ANOTHER ONE, OR BETTER YET, SEVERAL MORE.

Sorry to be harsh, but you just dont get it. There's a ton of info on here that you can READ FOR YOURSELF, to make you more attractive to WOMEN. Plural. Meaning; this site isnt to help you get THAT ONE GIRL, its to help you get better with girlS, and rule number one is LOSE THE ONEITIS, and find other girlS. Comprende? How many more of us need to spell it out for you?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What part of NO CONTACT is so difficult for you to understand? You're not trying to raise her IL by walking away, you dimwit! You walk away to LOWER YOUR IL in her, move on, and find another woman! You write thread after thread about the same stupid hor, asking the same stupid questions. Read the fvcking DJ bible, then read it again!
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Well that pretty much sums it up. Follow horaholic's instructions.
 
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