Tenacity
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
By Far The Ugliest Chick Ever - POF Profile
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
btownbuck2012
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lol, that's a guy..right?
Seriously, that's a man I'm pretty sure.
Seriously, that's a man I'm pretty sure.
PeasantPlayer
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Seen worse on there believe or not
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MillionBillionaire
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That picture was taken on my burfday...
sazc
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wait...does she have a mustache?
LMAO
JohnChops
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that is a guy fellas... I hope... seriously. "Average body type" WOT LOL. "Delusional" sounds like the correct word.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Made an account on POF just to tell her that she is ugly as ****.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sho-No-Luv
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ApolloSunGod
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I think its more like Queencain LMAO..
EyeBRollin
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I've seen uglier, believe it or not.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Seriously. I don't get the point of this thread. Ok. He/she isn't attractive. Now as "real men" we point and laugh to feel "better" about ourselves?
Tenacity
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Here's another one of those SEXY women from POF:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=74373775
Sooo tell me guys, is this chick a HB8 or what? Damnnnn, sexy as hell
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=74373775
Sooo tell me guys, is this chick a HB8 or what? Damnnnn, sexy as hell
You have really low self esteem.Here's another one of those SEXY women from POF:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=74373775
Sooo tell me guys, is this chick a HB8 or what? Damnnnn, sexy as hell
May you be happy, may you be well.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.