"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you subconsciously admit that hispanic men are better looking, better lovers and more sexually attractive to women. Why would you choose a latino/hispanic stereotype when the majority of you are white men.

"Suave" comes from Spanish, which means Smooth. "Don Juan" comes from the latin lover stereotype, where they are usually portrayed as being good in bed, good lovers, smooth, good with women, etc. The whole name and motto of this website cater to this stereotype.

Why not the jungle fever or the sweet big chocolate mandingo motto?

These are stereotypes, but the fact that they are still around until this very day, and even dating websites uses them as its motto, is because there must be some validity to them.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I could care less if Latino men are those things. Just Let me in! I'll cop you a beer when I get in Chico.
 

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because we like tacos!
 

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you subconsciously admit that hispanic men are better looking, better lovers and more sexually attractive to women. Why would you choose a latino/hispanic stereotype when the majority of you are white men.

"Suave" comes from Spanish, which means Smooth. "Don Juan" comes from the latin lover stereotype, where they are usually portrayed as being good in bed, good lovers, smooth, good with women, etc. The whole name and motto of this website cater to this stereotype.

Why not the jungle fever or the sweet big chocolate mandingo motto?

These are stereotypes, but the fact that they are still around until this very day, and even dating websites uses them as its motto, is because there must be some validity to them.
The great and powerful Oz has spoken.

LOL
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is wrong with this guy? You seriously want to take the garbage you said in the previous thread and restate it here?
Troll...
 

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What is wrong with this guy? You seriously want to take the garbage you said in the previous thread and restate it here?
Troll...
trolling is about passing along false information or quality acting that results in anger in your target audience. it results in them thinking you are just a complete idiot when in fact you are purposely stirring up their emotions.
 

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trolling is about passing along false information or quality acting that results in anger in your target audience. it results in them thinking you are just a complete idiot when in fact you are purposely stirring up their emotions.
^Exactly what I see here. You seriously are coming off as a complete idiot. So therefore I deduce that either you are an idiot, or you are a troll.
 

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^Exactly what I see here. You seriously are coming off as a complete idiot. So therefore I deduce that either you are an idiot, or you are a troll.
i think you and I are destined to do this forever
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ha, good one. Way to leave your hamster spinning. I swear some guys have to see things that are not there.

Think of it what you like, but it is just terminology. It's like saying that all English speaking nations are trying to replicate the Roman empire, since a lot of English is derived from Latin. Maybe we are admitting that Spaniards are better with women, not "Latinos".

Or maybe nobody gives a fvck.
I like how you'd rather believe the donjuan/suave stereotype to be for Spaniards since they are white like most people here, and not for"latinos" who are usually mixed/ethnics

very convenient

reminds me when white/black men say that latino women are hot, but if you ask them, what about the men, they say, no, the men are not, which is very convenient, of course, they would say that since we are their competition

In fact, bodybuilding.com has a 60-70 pages Latina appreciation thread

but somehow, according to them, latino men cannot be attractive as their female counterpart, how convenient lol
 
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Ironically, Tacos are an American invention, not mexican.

There are no "Tacos" in Mexico.
Ah, but the million dollar question is: are there Senoritas in Mexico? Or, are they an American invention too? Oh wait, Mexico is in America!

Odelay essay!
 

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Ah, but the million dollar question is: are there Senoritas in Mexico? Or, are they an American invention too? Oh wait, Mexico is in America!

Odelay essay!
Oh, so would you rather be called United Statian? Everyone refers to people from the United States as Americans. Tacos and Burritos were invented by United Statians, not Mexicans. Nobody eats or sells Tacos and Burritos in Mexico.

Red Herring at its finest
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone who refers to himself as a donjuan is a total cheeseball in my opinion.

But interesting point by the OP....Latin people do tend to be very attractive in general. Would be nice to have that color skin naturally.
 

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By your logic, speaking English makes you love British c0ck.
 

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I like how you'd rather believe the donjuan/suave stereotype to be for Spaniards since they are white like most people here, and not for"latinos" who are usually mixed/ethnics

very convenient

reminds me when white/black men say that latino women are hot, but if you ask them, what about the men, they say, no, the men are not, which is very convenient, of course, they would say that since we are their competition

In fact, bodybuilding.com has a 60-70 pages Latina appreciation thread

but somehow, according to them, latino men cannot be attractive as their female counterpart, how convenient lol
Maybe that has something to do with the fact they're not gay and could give a f*ck about how a man looks or how attractive he supposedly is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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