"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Big Eee Zee

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so how often do you guys buy things for girls? I have been in an LTR for a long time, since early summer now. I have probably spent a total of 70 dollars. one gift, two dinners. I mean, i never buy anything. And its not a problem, she seems happy. So i wonder-do you guys buy things for your women?

Am i just that much of a DJ that I can go without it? ;)

Kidding, but seriously, anyone have experience with these situations?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have girls buy me things, dinner, drinks, etc.

I got a girl in Dublin to buy me a 20 Euro drink in a club.
 
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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
so how often do you guys buy things for girls? I have been in an LTR for a long time, since early summer now. I have probably spent a total of 70 dollars. one gift, two dinners. I mean, i never buy anything. And its not a problem, she seems happy. So i wonder-do you guys buy things for your women?

Am i just that much of a DJ that I can go without it? ;)

Kidding, but seriously, anyone have experience with these situations?
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Do it on occasions as a surprise. Other than that, it's not necessary and can lead down a road of being taken advantage of.
 
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