"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Big Eee Zee

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so how often do you guys buy things for girls? I have been in an LTR for a long time, since early summer now. I have probably spent a total of 70 dollars. one gift, two dinners. I mean, i never buy anything. And its not a problem, she seems happy. So i wonder-do you guys buy things for your women?

Am i just that much of a DJ that I can go without it? ;)

Kidding, but seriously, anyone have experience with these situations?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have girls buy me things, dinner, drinks, etc.

I got a girl in Dublin to buy me a 20 Euro drink in a club.
 
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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
so how often do you guys buy things for girls? I have been in an LTR for a long time, since early summer now. I have probably spent a total of 70 dollars. one gift, two dinners. I mean, i never buy anything. And its not a problem, she seems happy. So i wonder-do you guys buy things for your women?

Am i just that much of a DJ that I can go without it? ;)

Kidding, but seriously, anyone have experience with these situations?
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Do it on occasions as a surprise. Other than that, it's not necessary and can lead down a road of being taken advantage of.
 
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