"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Buying signals to the rictor scale but she has a b/f!

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Ok, i just got done breaking up w/ my g/f of 7 months and got over all that b/s.

Anyways, i was hangin w/ my buddys at a Cafe that occasionally has Open mic nights so i decided to go cause i love playin in front of people (i'm in a band btw). We met up with my friend jarid who brought his female friend named Tammi. She's prolly in the 8-9 zone. Nice body, cute.

Now, dont get me wrong, i wasn't out looking for girls since i just got out of a big relationshipp like 4 days ago but I thought i'd spit some game, see how rusty i was at the whole picking up thing.

Anyways, i played my songs, made the crowd laugh, bla bla. I didn't pay much attention to Tammi, i was too busy socializing cause thats what i do! lol. Anyways, we all decided to go to Dennys to eat. Tammi and the rest of the people go into the lobby to wait for a booth so i sit next to Tammi, for the hell of it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I dont rememeber exact details but I was bustin on her for some stuff, made her laugh a lot, used good amounts of kino with Compribable responses from her as well. THings were goin cool.

We finally get our booth, i sit down first and guess who sits next to me? Tammi. Anyways, i'm flirtin with her some more, using plenty of kino and CF (not too much cf of course). Shes laughin at me the whole time (even my stupid jokes thta i really didn't intend to be all that funny, always a good sign).

Oh, did i mention the whole time at the booth, she's rubbin her leg on mine every now and then? hah, anyways. She had to go to the b-room so we let her out.

When she was gone, EVERYONE at the table was like "OMG dude, that chick wants you, shes been starin at you the whole time and scooting closer to you every second bla bla bla". This showed it was obvious i wasn't just "imagining" this, a common AFC tendancy i had before i found sosuave.

Heres where it goes to SHIZNIT. She comes back, later on, we find out that SHE HAS A B/F!!!!!!!!. Anyways, I had to pee so when i came back, i sat in a different seat. She looked all depressed. haha.

So, whats anyones analization of this situation? Was this chick playin me or was she potentially attracted to me? She DID tell jarid later on that i was "soo effing hott" but thats that. Idk, i'm not looking to hook up or anything, i'm just mostly tryin to brush up again. Thanks fo the input.
 
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It looks like she was trying to hook up. There is a statistic Matrix told me...82% of women are unhappy in thier relationship. Keep that in mind and with a grain of salt.
 
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