"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Joe The Homophobe said:
So when are you going to detail about building credit, Bible Belt?
Read "From Credit Repair, to Credit Millionaire" by Donna Fox. One of the best books written for learning about credit.

Here's something funny for you people who don't realize the importance of maintaining your credit-

One of my business partners recently went to get an equity line on his house to use for investing. Turns out he had a $180 bill mistakenly reported as unpaid on his credit report. If he would have resolved this issue BEFORE he went to borrow money he moght have been able to borrow more money at a lower rate.

He jokes how $180 cost him $50,000, but the funny thing is it isn't far from the truth.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stud said:
what financial board are you posting this on as well?
The other board isn't public, so you couldn't get access anyway, unless you pay a membership fee. The benefit is, the members of the forum are all mature and experienced, and the forum is very well-kept. To prevent from spamming this board, please PM me if you would like the name of the forum and more info about the membership (by the way, I am in no way affiliated with the ownership of the other forum).

Skel said:
looking to buy my 2nd residential property
That's awesome. I am trying to buy the first property as an investment property, to rent out.

Docs said:
What will be your income. You must be able to tell me what it is.
My income is approximately $800-$850/month. As I mentioned before, my parents take care of my tuition/housing through June of this year. I pay for my own food, and I am also buying stuff for a weight-gain program (look for my next thread in Health/Fitness soon), and this accounts for no more than $300/month. So, I have approximately $500-$550 extra per month.

STR8UP said:
Read "From Credit Repair, to Credit Millionaire" by Donna Fox. One of the best books written for learning about credit.
Thanks for the book you mentioned. I will surely check it out.

At the moment my game plan is to apply for and acquire 4-5 credit cards. I am in the process of filling out 2 applications right now, and once my next pay stub is in, I will be done with them.

As for buying a home with money down or not, my situation may be somewhat different. I am looking to puchase beach front property in Mexico. You may think that is crazy, but I speculate that it could make for huge capital gains (in addition to my primary objective of renting it out). I have attended several presentations (unrelated to realestate, but rather on the topic of globalization, and economies in Latin America) and they have spoken of much positive economic activity in South America. South America is growing extremely fast, and Venezuala is now in a budget surplus. Not to sound too optimistic, or overly sold on this lead, but I have read a couple articles about a "super-port" that will be built in the next few years off the coast of Mexico. Mexico may soon be the next place to be for real estate investors. I have a relative who is realestate investor, now snatching up properties in Peru. So it's not so far-fetched.

Anyhow, I'll keep updating on how my credit cards and credit building go. In addition, pretty soon, I will begin investing in stocks to save money for a possible down payment; I'll update on that as well.
 

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http://www.usatoday.com/printedition/news/20060627/1a_cover27.art.htm

"Since 2000, the cost of a home has more than doubled in about 30 major metro areas, including Washington, New York, Las Vegas, Phoenix, Sacramento, San Diego and Atlantic City. In seven U.S. cities, the median home now costs more than a half-million dollars.

Even though the real estate boom peaked last year, there's no end in sight. Nationally, home prices are still climbing and are expected to rise about 5% this year. Coupled with higher interest rates, gas prices and property taxes, those prices are creating an affordability crisis that is rippling through communities across the country."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm getting ready to start.

Over the past year, I've been building my credit (my fico is around 700, I feel that I need at least 750) and I have a steady job that will probably last as long as I need it to.

Unfortunately, I have nothing to use as a down payment, that's my only real weakness.
 
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