"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BUY MY BOOK! The "BEST" advice!

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How many of you have seen these threads or posts offering the "best" advice by buying someone's book off sosuave or elsewhere?

Do any of you feel any are worth it? Would you buy their book? Do you think they help? Some probably offer good advice but in the end it's up to YOU to put the advice given on sosuave and in whatever book in practice. What's worked for one man may not work for others. What do you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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actually writing a book IS FOR HELPING others, writing down the sum of your knowledge all in a book is pretty cool.

Books aka KNOWLEDGE is power...........authors, posters dont TELL U WHAT WORKS OR EVER SAY DO THIS AND GET RICH, DRIVE WOMEN CRAZY..............THEY merely
offer advice to save you time, frustration, money.

All they do is open a few doors............its YOUR CHOICE to follow or flat out refuse. They cant force you to perform.

I do know this............if you got ANY success, tips, time savers its from EMPIRICAL RESEARCH...........field testing stuff out. The ultimate GOAL should be to HELP OTHERS, POTENTIAL gets maximized by instructing others. Whether it be a TV show, book, DVD, bootcamp, post, blog, etc.

There is no universal PREFERRED PICKUP METHOD................as techniques change with each scenario and or individual.

THERE ARE HOWEVER some basic fundamentals most will agree upon example INNER GAME SHOULD BE FIRST STEP.

HOW CAN U PUT A COST on gaining the sum of someones knowledge, all organized in a book.....then improving on said knowledge and applying it to your own.

SURE YOU sit on your computer all day long and do searches..........and get tons of conflcting advice.

What makes someone an expert.....................don't know IF ANYONE WOULD consider themselves an expert.........NEVER EVER HEARD MYSERY SAY THAT OR DAVID DEANGELO, OR POOK, THE AUTHORS OFTHE DJ BIBLE, TUCKER MAXX............NEVER ONCE DID THEY THEMSELVES REFER TO BEING AN EXPERT.

Buy them, torrent search them, or become a keyboard jockey.............but sit there and knock authors for TRYING TO OFFER SOME ADVICE that has worked for them........thats just one dimentional thinking
 

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COD said:
actually writing a book IS FOR HELPING others, writing down the sum of your knowledge all in a book is pretty cool.

Books aka KNOWLEDGE is power...........authors, posters dont TELL U WHAT WORKS OR EVER SAY DO THIS AND GET RICH, DRIVE WOMEN CRAZY..............THEY merely
offer advice to save you time, frustration, money.

All they do is open a few doors............its YOUR CHOICE to follow or flat out refuse. They cant force you to perform.

I do know this............if you got ANY success, tips, time savers its from EMPIRICAL RESEARCH...........field testing stuff out. The ultimate GOAL should be to HELP OTHERS, POTENTIAL gets maximized by instructing others. Whether it be a TV show, book, DVD, bootcamp, post, blog, etc.

There is no universal PREFERRED PICKUP METHOD................as techniques change with each scenario and or individual.

THERE ARE HOWEVER some basic fundamentals most will agree upon example INNER GAME SHOULD BE FIRST STEP.

HOW CAN U PUT A COST on gaining the sum of someones knowledge, all organized in a book.....then improving on said knowledge and applying it to your own.

SURE YOU sit on your computer all day long and do searches..........and get tons of conflcting advice.

What makes someone an expert.....................don't know IF ANYONE WOULD consider themselves an expert.........NEVER EVER HEARD MYSERY SAY THAT OR DAVID DEANGELO, OR POOK, THE AUTHORS OFTHE DJ BIBLE, TUCKER MAXX............NEVER ONCE DID THEY THEMSELVES REFER TO BEING AN EXPERT.

Buy them, torrent search them, or become a keyboard jockey.............but sit there and knock authors for TRYING TO OFFER SOME ADVICE that has worked for them........thats just one dimentional thinking
Äsking money for a book full of ripped off bullsh*t is one dimentional thinking.
 

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then save your money

AH THE ME ME ME GENERATION................spends most of their time complaining about EVERYTHING..........and contributes so little.

Yet they download movies for free, music for free, in school they cut n paste reports stolen online.............and STILL COMPLAIN.

anyways.........throwing out accusations based UPON SPECULATION and having ZERO evidence to support such outlandish allogations is the mark of the ITS ALL ABOUT ME GENERATION.

Just go thru life leeching off of others............and please cap on everyone and dont ever write a book.

........You read it here first folks.............this is the next generation........comments without ever doing research, has opinions on virtually everything, though totally unfounded and unsubstantiated, yet still finds it neccessary to critisize............wow how U must be every womans wet dream.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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COD said:
actually writing a book IS FOR HELPING others, writing down the sum of your knowledge all in a book is pretty cool.

Books aka KNOWLEDGE is power...........authors, posters dont TELL U WHAT WORKS OR EVER SAY DO THIS AND GET RICH, DRIVE WOMEN CRAZY..............THEY merely
offer advice to save you time, frustration, money.

All they do is open a few doors............its YOUR CHOICE to follow or flat out refuse. They cant force you to perform.

I do know this............if you got ANY success, tips, time savers its from EMPIRICAL RESEARCH...........field testing stuff out. The ultimate GOAL should be to HELP OTHERS, POTENTIAL gets maximized by instructing others. Whether it be a TV show, book, DVD, bootcamp, post, blog, etc.

There is no universal PREFERRED PICKUP METHOD................as techniques change with each scenario and or individual.

THERE ARE HOWEVER some basic fundamentals most will agree upon example INNER GAME SHOULD BE FIRST STEP.

HOW CAN U PUT A COST on gaining the sum of someones knowledge, all organized in a book.....then improving on said knowledge and applying it to your own.

SURE YOU sit on your computer all day long and do searches..........and get tons of conflcting advice.

What makes someone an expert.....................don't know IF ANYONE WOULD consider themselves an expert.........NEVER EVER HEARD MYSERY SAY THAT OR DAVID DEANGELO, OR POOK, THE AUTHORS OFTHE DJ BIBLE, TUCKER MAXX............NEVER ONCE DID THEY THEMSELVES REFER TO BEING AN EXPERT.

Buy them, torrent search them, or become a keyboard jockey.............but sit there and knock authors for TRYING TO OFFER SOME ADVICE that has worked for them........thats just one dimentional thinking
Sure knowledge is power, but only when knowledge is applied properly. I know people that are so absorbed in this materiel... they're constantly thinking, they're not even making progress and all they do is analyse. How mentally tiering is that? Can they got back to the way things were before?

And let's remember that when you publish something for money, your ultimately looking for money. Why make a bunch of books when you can just make one? I mean if your really looking to help people, don't need to make 10 books were information is repeated.

COD said:
AH THE ME ME ME GENERATION................spends most of their time complaining about EVERYTHING..........and contributes so little.

Yet they download movies for free, music for free, in school they cut n paste reports stolen online.............and STILL COMPLAIN.

anyways.........throwing out accusations based UPON SPECULATION and having ZERO evidence to support such outlandish allogations is the mark of the ITS ALL ABOUT ME GENERATION.

Just go thru life leeching off of others............and please cap on everyone and dont ever write a book.

........You read it here first folks.............this is the next generation........comments without ever doing research, has opinions on virtually everything, though totally unfounded and unsubstantiated, yet still finds it neccessary to critisize............wow how U must be every womans wet dream.
Why would you pay for something that can be found on free sites like this one?
 

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several reasons...........free sites are filled with conjecture based upon specualtions............U get tons and I do means tons of conflicting viewpoints.

People tend to miss out on paid for material by getting clips, pieces, off the internet.........downlaods are filled with spoofs, ghosts, etc.

Goiing thru life just leeching off others & never contributing............not too aspiring. FEW AUTHORS write to make money..........they write MORE BOOKS to continue a dream, goal, convey thoughts.

Not everything can be conveyed in one book----times change, things change or become obsolete, new secret, new enhancements, new trick, etc

Books are ot fluid..........once written they are set in print.........as things change, new insight.........new book.

In this I WANT IT NOW AND FOR FREE generation..........patience or more accurately LACK OF...........will cause youth problems.

THE PRICE OF FREE stuff is filled with flaws.........music, books, plagurism, theres somthing to be said about having a copy and OWNING THE BOOK, DVD, ETC.

Heres another big flaw...............when U have every mp3, every movie, every book all available to you instantly with a few clicks.........BOREDOM SETS IN. the more you leech the more you KILL originality.

I dont want a kindle...........I dont want and Ipod, I want something tangible I can feel, touch and display...............good luck when a power failure strikes.

LONG LIVE BOOKS
 

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Yeah? I also see several reasons for why you are typing like that. Makes you and your products easier to find by Google. Clever e-marketing.

Flaws in free stuff huh? And what makes you an expert again? Because you say so?

By the way. You ''cracked'' the ''vagina code''. Wow. Why don't you send an e-mail to a science magazine. Let it be peer reviewed by the guys working at Harvard University. You made the discovery of the century man. I'm putting my television on stand by, because man, I bet you this will be great news all over the world.
 
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