"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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But BPD chicks are kinda fun!

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Seeing this girl whos basically text book BPD. I know women like this are to be avoided buuuuuut she's totally into me 1,000,000% loooooves to screw, and gives me the best BJs I have ever had, ever. Girl sleeps sucking her thumb so she has a bit of oral fixation and that totally transfers over to the BJ dept.

Let me tell you it's hard to dump a crazy that's so into you. Not only because I am going to miss having my little groupie, but because she is very persistant about getting back together after I have tried to dump her.

So is it so bad to keep her around?

The BJs guys... the BJs...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No, they're not bad. That's why EVERYONE advises against having anything to do with them whatsoever.
 
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Is this the same girl who holds you inside her so she can have your cvm?
If so, there could be some problems developing already...
 
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Yeah lol...

It's one of those things that you know is bad but it's so good at the same time...

I feel stupid about keeping her around sometimes... stupid never felt so good tho!
 
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Hey, BPD girls still have the same snatch as any other girl so sure, have at it. Its only a problem if you're some poor schmuck that doesn't know what he is dealing with and how to handle it (FB at best, and thats it). But yeah, i mean, she is still a girl with girl parts so.. sounds good to me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd be real careful man, if she is the same girl that wants your semen I think you are either in big trouble or will get into big trouble eventually!
 
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As long as you dont mind, when she flips out on you for little to no reason and is immediately practicing her BJ skills with other men, then calling you five minutes later... go for it.
 
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horaholic said:
As long as you dont mind, when she flips out on you for little to no reason and is immediately practicing her BJ skills with other men, then calling you five minutes later... go for it.
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yep, and all that will happen.. you just have to look at it as a free hooker more or less.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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