"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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But BPD chicks are kinda fun!

SgtSplacker

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Seeing this girl whos basically text book BPD. I know women like this are to be avoided buuuuuut she's totally into me 1,000,000% loooooves to screw, and gives me the best BJs I have ever had, ever. Girl sleeps sucking her thumb so she has a bit of oral fixation and that totally transfers over to the BJ dept.

Let me tell you it's hard to dump a crazy that's so into you. Not only because I am going to miss having my little groupie, but because she is very persistant about getting back together after I have tried to dump her.

So is it so bad to keep her around?

The BJs guys... the BJs...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AlexDP

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No, they're not bad. That's why EVERYONE advises against having anything to do with them whatsoever.
 

zekko

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Is this the same girl who holds you inside her so she can have your cvm?
If so, there could be some problems developing already...
 
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Yeah lol...

It's one of those things that you know is bad but it's so good at the same time...

I feel stupid about keeping her around sometimes... stupid never felt so good tho!
 

st_99

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Hey, BPD girls still have the same snatch as any other girl so sure, have at it. Its only a problem if you're some poor schmuck that doesn't know what he is dealing with and how to handle it (FB at best, and thats it). But yeah, i mean, she is still a girl with girl parts so.. sounds good to me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'd be real careful man, if she is the same girl that wants your semen I think you are either in big trouble or will get into big trouble eventually!
 

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As long as you dont mind, when she flips out on you for little to no reason and is immediately practicing her BJ skills with other men, then calling you five minutes later... go for it.
 

st_99

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horaholic said:
As long as you dont mind, when she flips out on you for little to no reason and is immediately practicing her BJ skills with other men, then calling you five minutes later... go for it.
yep, and all that will happen.. you just have to look at it as a free hooker more or less.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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