There are genuinely busy girls that don't pick up the phone often and then there are those that are blowing you off by giving you random excuses.
How can you tell which one is which?
See, I understand when a girl says "Oh, its complicated, but I can't date anyone" but when its like "oh, I'm busy but I will get this info from your Monday!"
or when I ask her out and she says "Sure!" and then won't pick up her phone and then text me with "I'm so sorry...it ended up being a busy night".
How do you take it then? Sometimes if you start ignoring them at this point they get offended and just blow you off because they were GENUINELY busy.
If her life is filled with things to do then its hard to keep her attention on you.
I do it to people sometimes...rather go to one party where I want to be with a specific kind of people because of my mood.
I was thinking to just ask "Do you actually want to continue seeing me or is this a way of blowing me off?"
How can you tell which one is which?
See, I understand when a girl says "Oh, its complicated, but I can't date anyone" but when its like "oh, I'm busy but I will get this info from your Monday!"
or when I ask her out and she says "Sure!" and then won't pick up her phone and then text me with "I'm so sorry...it ended up being a busy night".
How do you take it then? Sometimes if you start ignoring them at this point they get offended and just blow you off because they were GENUINELY busy.
If her life is filled with things to do then its hard to keep her attention on you.
I do it to people sometimes...rather go to one party where I want to be with a specific kind of people because of my mood.
I was thinking to just ask "Do you actually want to continue seeing me or is this a way of blowing me off?"