"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not to long ago I had a few girls I was getting with and in the hostle of it all I kinda nexted this one girl. It wasn't my goal, but I got caught up with other girls and when I saw her again I could tell she was pissed. She didn't say it, but did make a point of letting me know that she was talking to other guys. As if to say I don't need you I can get any guy I want...

... so I ignored her and showed her that I had other girls and could get other girls...

Since she was talking to a guy next to me that she knew I didn't like I went to a girl that was hotter than her and started talking. I really didn't care what she did after that cause it went well with the girl I started talking to.

Now I seen her again today *she works at a coffee place I go to, actually that is where I met her* It had been a little while since all that and I started chating it up with her and making fun of the little things she said and did, and noticed that she gave me a hurt look. I must have reacted to that look cause she looked away and was closed. Again I wasn't going to give her a tissue to cry in so I said I had to Jet. Instantly she started a new conversation and begain to come up with reasons to see her again. She wanted to know when I was Djing again and where and if I could hook her and her friends up with some free pass' and promotional stuff...bla blah blahhhhh.....

I never ment to next her, but after it all I really don't understand where she is comming from now. Is it that she wants to get me just to prove to her self that she can?

Part of me wants to hook her and her friend up just cause she is hot and so is her friend, but I don't want her to just try to get free **** because I should feel sorry for ignoring her. Casue I don't.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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**** them both ....
to tell the truth I dont see why in the world you would post that in here, if you know youve got skill then just use it, your obviously still young :eek: ... Now, if you need advice, either read one of my advice posts or PM or w/e
 

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why would I post that in here?

i don't understand. Is this forum not for posting questions to hone your djing skills?
 

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and there is no both. there is one. the others I don't have a question on.
 
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