"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Armondo

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Watch how this Vincent Gallo (billy brown) handles women, he's not acting, hes being himself, read his interviews, he still picks up chicks to this day

I was just modleing myself after Vincent Gallo one night, because i just wanted to have some fun with it, and the women flocked to me, I watched it 2 more times

Once you go Buffalo you never go back
if you do it right!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Perhaps in time I'll se that movie. In the meantime, can you be more specific. What exactly does this guy do? Why is he so effective?
 

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Also, to the rest of you. I hear a lot of "forget about her" or "move on."

While I recognize that this is good and sane advice in the big picture, it gives me very little chance with this particular woman. So I'm curious to know if anyone has ever recovered a girl from a situation of moderate interest? If so, how was it done??
 

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I have to agree with the advice. It seems like these girls have better things to do right now. By persueing these girls, where does AFC-hood start. I think you definitely have to lower your interest level (at least what you show) in this girl. Being a challenge and letting some time pass will help. But is giving up the answer? Obviously unless your an AFC, you don't need these girls, but unless they are walking all over you, why not be gently persistant? My advice is to go on with your life, but give them a call from time to time. I think some kind of gentle persistance is required to raise the interest level, but there are defintely times to back off. Their busyness will go up and down, and who they are seeing will change from time to time. (Am I being an AFC?)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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