“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hi guys...

Target: Emma
Age: 28 (older than me cause im 25 but she is HB7.5 and I like also older girls).
Her job: Nurse, Student, Part time bartender

Her friend came to me once at the club and told me that this lassy would like to go out with me for a date...they were drunk, I was drunk, we were chatting for a while, dancing, drinking... but i never asked her for a phone number. ok i was stupid but also drunk and i didnt know what im doing...

2 weeks later i met her again, she was celebrating some christmas party with her friends. she came to me and we have been talking for at least one hour then she said she is so sorry, she need to go back to her friends etc. She even gave me a kiss when she was leaving (half on a chick, half on lips) I got her number and asked her if she wanna hang out, she said yes please text me...

I texted her and we made a plan for a date, I was playing it cool so we changed just couple of messages.. i hate long texting. However one hour before the date she canceled this one.. she said she is working overtime (she works in a hospital)...I replied OKAY later she apologised because they had some accident. However I was expecting that she will come back to me with another time for a date, she never did.
I was planing to step back and text her in one week because i didnt wanna look needy.

Yesterday I ran into her again. She works also as a ,part time, bartender. I was sitting at the bar and because there was just few guests she came to me and she was talking with me for quiet long time. Maybe she came just because she was bored. We have been talking for a while about our jobs, her studies etc but she never mentioned our canceled date. When i was leaving i told her: it was nice to see you, are you free next week? She said that she is too busy because she is working and also she has to study for exams. However she said come back again next week I will be working and we can have a chat...

How should I play it? She always made a first step. Thats a good sign. However I presume that if she will be interested in me then she will made time to see me...Should i give her one more chance and come back to see her at the bar? I know that it will be just talking and no action.
Or should I "next" her because she is still saying how busy she is?
 
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"Her friend came to me once at the club and told me that this lassy would like to go out with me for a date...they were drunk" Think about that if you try to make excuses for why you haven't been able to date her and remind yourself that she is a bartender that get's hit on by more men a night, especially ones with liquid courage than you could ever compete with. You don't go to her bar to try to pick her up either, you take her out of her comfort zone.

Come back again next week? Are you kidding me... That's some stripper **** right there. Ignore her unless she contacts you and don't hang in her bar on her time trying to throw game, she's working for tips, and it ain't yours.
 

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Your princess is another castle bro!!! Move on to someone who's interested for real!
 

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She cancelled once...strike one. She told you she's too busy, strike two. Two strikes = Next. Come back next week? Get the fück outta here! Is she going to command you every time she decides to give you a smidgen of attention like a little hungry puppy?

Forget her, man, delete her number. If you run into her you say you were way too busy. She's not interested in dating or fücking.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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