"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Busting her balls? Ignoring BS?

Babnik

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What exactly does busting her on her own crap means? Sorry, it must be a slang thing.


Also, when a girl tries to give you crap or talk about her BF, how do you ignore her?

You just look away and say nothing and change the topic?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It means exactly what it says bro, it just smells
 

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You know babnik, ive been wondering the same thing as well. I attempted to bust on my Ex gf here and there as practice, but she took it totally the wrong way like i was insultiing her.... maybe i did it wrong.. who knows, but Yeah, could someone please explain? busting on her... lol.. not in a sexual way...
 

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Busting her balls means teasing her. For example, she is whining a little, to bust her balls you could say, "Aww, look at you. You are sooo cute when you whine." Something like that.
 

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Yeah exactly. I guess you gotta do it right because girls do take busting on them (not physically like sperm!) offensively. They take it as insults!

I think you have to be funny and ****y about it!



OK, what about ignoring stupid comments?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this how you get an Attention Hor?

alright, so i got a friend thats a natural jerk and insults chicks all the time.

He insulted this one attention hor in our social group that every guy(including myself) tried to get at.

She asked him "Am I bunk(ugly)?"(Obviously a sh!t test) and he responded with "...You're not that bunk". Everyone started laughing and she got pretty upset at him. He also spoke to her on the phone once pretending to be drunk and he straight up told her "I think your ugly" and once again she was upset and had the other AFC's in the group to re-assure her that she wasnt. Almost each time we all hang out he ignores her while everyone drenches her with attention. She would always go to him first to try and talk, but whenever he and her would get into a semi convo, he would re-assure her that she was "bunk and had no ass".

She claims that she hates him because he's rude and has to shut up some times so I countered it with, "well, you did want ppl to be honest with you right? I think he was just telling you the truth".

Anyways, according to all my friends, she really dislikes him and is NOW trying to ignore him because he accused her of liking him and she wants to prove that she doesnt and the only reason why he's mean to her is because: "I can see that you're falling for me each time we hang out and I know it wont work out. I don't hate you, I just don't want to hurt you."(He sent this as a text in response to hers) Which I thought was fcuking hilarious.

On a side note, They both have alot in common: They both watch korean drama, play World of War craft, play video games, and other nerdy stuff.

I know for sure that he finds her decent in looks and not "bunk", but he's also not interested in her. So my question is....Is this working for him? I know it doesnt look like it right now, but I was also thinking that its one of those "I hate you, but I want you" situations...

What do you guys think?
 

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oh Sh!t, i didnt mean to hijack this post. I coulda swore I was starting a new thread...
 

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Bump
 

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Funny stuff. Being too mean might turn some girls off but some see it as a game and fiend for even the slightest compliment. Attention hors are annoying and are usually very ustable. I reccomend avoiding them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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