"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Busted: Aquentice's g/f found on POF

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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could this profile been created before they got together? If you let the cat out the bag, tell us the details!
 

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Well she can't get pregnant twice lol..

Maybe she's just doing it to boost her ego?
 

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headFirst said:
Maybe she's just doing it to boost her ego?
chicks do that a lot. seems like in their mind this is a save way of flirting where you dont cheat but get the same amount of validation and excitment. just entertainment like playing a video game. or watching porn.
 

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Ozel599 said:
Wow here's a shocker.
Came across a profile on POF, and I know her boyfriend - there still together.
It isn't a shocker to me. Women window-shop all the time. They are craving to see what is out there and what they could potentially buy, and it's a very hard feeling to resist for them.

I am sure every one of us has had a girlfriend at some point who used to go to the store and waste hours on end without actually buying anything. I think there might be a strong connection between how they perceive men and how they perceive other material things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bradd80 said:
hmm if she is still active on pof i can't really blame her. Have you seen what her bf looks like? yikes definitely a mismatch i think she can do a lot better and i'm thinking she probably does too..
He seems like a normal guy. I've seen way more mismatched couples than this.

I think sosuave has this idea in their heads that all attractive women only date A-list actors and model-quality professional athletes. You know...6'8", 3% body fat, owns a Fortune 500 company....maybe a yacht or two.
 

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Ozel599 said:
Wow here's a shocker.

Came across a profile on POF, and I know her boyfriend - there still together.


http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=44095957

http://www.facebook.com/gemma.higginson.96


Tempting to let the guy know, but I think I will sit this one out, as I have only met this couple a few times at events. Last saw them at a wedding a few days ago.

Just to add the icing - she's pregnant.

Could also be a dude who knows her using her FB pics (as a hot chick) to troll and see what game other dudes are running. Her POF profile says her name is libby, is she a nurse? Her FB says Gemma.

It could really be her too though going incognito for attention. Though if it's her she might be only using the site for validation as if her name is Gemma and she's pregnant in RL but using the name Libby she can't honestly be expecting dudes to meet a chick giving a fake name and show up to meet them pregnant. Unless she's a loon and a compulsive liar in real life.
 

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excellent.

I was just about to post the same thing.

Browsing POF meet me feature last friday and saw my little sisters best friend on there.

She's actually living with her current boyfriend and has an active POF account.

She was texting another dude already engaged to another woman months ago through FB.
They had done the dirty in vegas some months prior to that and stayed in contact.

The guy is from south america, lots of hot msgs going back and forth then his fiancee saw
them and sent them to her boyfriend she lives with....he took it like an AFC and forgave her.

I'm sure he doesn't know about her POF account.
 

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Remember that these sites infamous for reusing the pics and profiles of women who are no longer on there just to bump up the number of women on their site.
 

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Ozel599 said:
Wow here's a shocker.

Came across a profile on POF, and I know her boyfriend - there still together.


http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=44095957

http://www.facebook.com/gemma.higginson.96


Tempting to let the guy know, but I think I will sit this one out, as I have only met this couple a few times at events. Last saw them at a wedding a few days ago.

Just to add the icing - she's pregnant.
firstly *Aquaintance
secondly FVCKING *THEY'RE!!!!
spelling and grammar are important
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Purefilth said:
firstly *Aquaintance
secondly FVCKING *THEY'RE!!!!
spelling and grammar are important
:crackup:

When I read the thread title, I thought, "Aquaman? Aquaman's GF? Wut?"....

Anyway, if you don't really know the couple too well, then don't meddle in their personal lives. There is a thousand different explanations for why she is on there...some of which are already provided here in this thread.

Don't be "that" guy...let these two be.
 

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Wow...so ****ed up. Man I really hope to find a good woman one day.
 

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If it is her, a prime example of how stupid some women can be, and why we shouldn't put them up there on that pedestal. It's like she doesn't even realize someone who knows her will be on there.

No idea why she's calling herself Libby. The bit about qualifying at Notts Uni is true.

Her bf is actually a model. Not one of those "tops off" ones, he's the guy you see chilling on the sofa in furniture catalogues, and that randomer on stock photos.

Yeah kinda rushed that post. Will keep the spelling and grammar in mind.

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Aquaman.
 

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bradd80 said:
hmm if she is still active on pof i can't really blame her. Have you seen what her bf looks like? yikes definitely a mismatch i think she can do a lot better and i'm thinking she probably does too..
This is central England. She's too hot to belong around here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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