"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Today, I was thinking alot to myself, I just went into the bus sat next to a really fat chick, the only nice thing about her was the face. Then I fantasized, what if she had a nice body and I really wanted to get a conversation going? How would I first start? One completely stupid opener that popped up in my head was "Hi, look over there at that building, what color do you think it is painted in? I think it's green ( It's actually maybe a beige, it doesn't matter)" as the buss stops. Do you think that's a good one I can remember for next time nothing interesting happens? How do you guys do this thing on a buss?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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there is NO perfect pick up line. The one you thought of about the building being green or whatever could have worked just fine. As a matter of fact, if you said it in a comfortable relaxed tone if sure as hell would of worked.

However, you can never get down on yourself when a pick up line doesn't work because no single 'tactic' works on every girl. Instead of focusing on what you say, focus on being comfotable in your own skin and with socializing in general.

Any pick up line could work. It's ALL ABOUT HOW YOU SAY IT. Are you comfortable with YOURSELF?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWPbfCCHPAU
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
there is NO perfect pick up line. The one you thought of about the building being green or whatever could have worked just fine. As a matter of fact, if you said it in a comfortable relaxed tone if sure as hell would of worked.

However, you can never get down on yourself when a pick up line doesn't work because no single 'tactic' works on every girl. Instead of focusing on what you say, focus on being comfotable in your own skin and with socializing in general.

Any pick up line could work. It's ALL ABOUT HOW YOU SAY IT. Are you comfortable with YOURSELF?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWPbfCCHPAU
Wow, you just put a link up with my favorite movie of all time, respect! :rockon:
I get what you mean, you want milk could work too, it's all about how confident you are.
 

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diabolicplans said:
Wow, you just put a link up with my favorite movie of all time, respect! :rockon:
I get what you mean, you want milk could work too, it's all about how confident you are.
what movie it is ???

diaboli i agree with the 2 other ... doesnt matter what you say ... its all about how you say it !

a friend of mine were waiting to cross the road and there was a chick he just approached her like that : 'hey what's your story ?'
so she was a little confuse he juste said :'you know we're going to be here for the next 30 second so why not know each other ?!'

and actually it worked !
 

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TheMale said:
what movie it is ???

diaboli i agree with the 2 other ... doesnt matter what you say ... its all about how you say it !

a friend of mine were waiting to cross the road and there was a chick he just approached her like that : 'hey what's your story ?'
so she was a little confuse he juste said :'you know we're going to be here for the next 30 second so why not know each other ?!'

and actually it worked !
I personally dislike the "what's your story" question, it's really hard to answer to that one...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah but if you're a woman and you cant answer correctly to that questions (and by correctly i mean ... what id like to hear ... what i want in a woman) then i'm not interested
 
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