Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Today, I was thinking alot to myself, I just went into the bus sat next to a really fat chick, the only nice thing about her was the face. Then I fantasized, what if she had a nice body and I really wanted to get a conversation going? How would I first start? One completely stupid opener that popped up in my head was "Hi, look over there at that building, what color do you think it is painted in? I think it's green ( It's actually maybe a beige, it doesn't matter)" as the buss stops. Do you think that's a good one I can remember for next time nothing interesting happens? How do you guys do this thing on a buss?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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there is NO perfect pick up line. The one you thought of about the building being green or whatever could have worked just fine. As a matter of fact, if you said it in a comfortable relaxed tone if sure as hell would of worked.

However, you can never get down on yourself when a pick up line doesn't work because no single 'tactic' works on every girl. Instead of focusing on what you say, focus on being comfotable in your own skin and with socializing in general.

Any pick up line could work. It's ALL ABOUT HOW YOU SAY IT. Are you comfortable with YOURSELF?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWPbfCCHPAU
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
there is NO perfect pick up line. The one you thought of about the building being green or whatever could have worked just fine. As a matter of fact, if you said it in a comfortable relaxed tone if sure as hell would of worked.

However, you can never get down on yourself when a pick up line doesn't work because no single 'tactic' works on every girl. Instead of focusing on what you say, focus on being comfotable in your own skin and with socializing in general.

Any pick up line could work. It's ALL ABOUT HOW YOU SAY IT. Are you comfortable with YOURSELF?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWPbfCCHPAU
Wow, you just put a link up with my favorite movie of all time, respect! :rockon:
I get what you mean, you want milk could work too, it's all about how confident you are.
 

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diabolicplans said:
Wow, you just put a link up with my favorite movie of all time, respect! :rockon:
I get what you mean, you want milk could work too, it's all about how confident you are.
what movie it is ???

diaboli i agree with the 2 other ... doesnt matter what you say ... its all about how you say it !

a friend of mine were waiting to cross the road and there was a chick he just approached her like that : 'hey what's your story ?'
so she was a little confuse he juste said :'you know we're going to be here for the next 30 second so why not know each other ?!'

and actually it worked !
 

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TheMale said:
what movie it is ???

diaboli i agree with the 2 other ... doesnt matter what you say ... its all about how you say it !

a friend of mine were waiting to cross the road and there was a chick he just approached her like that : 'hey what's your story ?'
so she was a little confuse he juste said :'you know we're going to be here for the next 30 second so why not know each other ?!'

and actually it worked !
I personally dislike the "what's your story" question, it's really hard to answer to that one...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah but if you're a woman and you cant answer correctly to that questions (and by correctly i mean ... what id like to hear ... what i want in a woman) then i'm not interested
 
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