"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Business Idea. Must've been done a million times, but will it still work?

Bizzle13

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Long term plan is property rentals followed by investments.
Short term to turn a few hundred in to a few thousand I was thinking of buying wholesale and selling individually - preferably on eBay or a similar site so I'm not paying out too much if I was to host my own site etc clearly people will have done this a lot and I was wondering if it's still worth it, if I was to get the right products.

I was looking at potentially buying a job lot of clothes (outsourced from China or Pakistan) and selling individually - could also create my own fancy looking label and this could be the start of my own apparel business.


Any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated, thank you.

Bizzle
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vice

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Go to your local REIA and start learning. There's ways to get into real estate investing that don't involve much money, like real estate wholesaling, house sitting, and managing rental property for owners. You'll learn, and that'll help you ID your first deal as well.

Forget the wholesaling; that's chump change and done to death.
 

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Excuse my ignorance but what is a REIA? I'm in England so maybe it's something different here. Sounds good though I'll look in to it, thanks. Yeah I imagine the downside to wholesaling would be having a load of junk lying around for long amounts of time and also it'll take a while for me to get my initial outlay back and even longer to get my profit.

I imagine getting started is the hardest part, it seems easy to make money once you've got money, but I'm probably being a little naive.
 

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If you're new to business I would advise you to be careful when getting into any business that involves inventory. Unless you can buy those items for dirt cheap, I would be cautious. A lot of hidden expenses accompany inventory such as storage, shipping, and attrition.
 

Bizzle13

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Well yeah that is a problem I've thought about. As far as storage goes it would just be in my home taking up space. Argh what else can I do? Can't keep on running in the rat race!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bizzle13 said:
Well yeah that is a problem I've thought about. As far as storage goes it would just be in my home taking up space. Argh what else can I do? Can't keep on running in the rat race!
A REIA is a Real Estate Investment Association.

And start educating your self financially while saving money. By the time you learn enough to take action, you'll have money to take action with. Although, it is not necessary to have money to make money.

Also look into getting frugal habits to help cut costs even more. Go Jewish, as I like to say.
 

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My family has always had rental properties. Land lord sounds like prestige, but most of the work is cleaning up messes and damage left by tenants. Interest rates have been so low for the past 10-20 years, that the class of people who are renters has gone way downhill, because everyone with a steady job could afford to buy a house. Until you get to the point of owning many properties, landlord and maintenance man will probably be the same job.
 
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