"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Business - how to work with your competitor?

Mr. Wolf

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You guys know that I sell DVDs and been in a death struggle with my competition..

We talked today over IM. Well, he wants to work together so we both make money..


I wonder how is it possible to work together so both make money? Please give me ideas.



So far my idea is as follows. Both sell at the same price and shipping. Then only contents matter.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Wolf said:
You guys know that I sell DVDs and been in a death struggle with my competition..

We talked today over IM. Well, he wants to work together so we both make money..


I wonder how is it possible to work together so both make money? Please give me ideas.



So far my idea is as follows. Both sell at the same price and shipping. Then only contents matter.
Specialise if you can? Provide a niche maybe.

I dont know, but working with the competition is only going to give him breathing space. If he is suggesting you work together, then may he is feeling the pinch more then you are?

There are a gazillion guys selling DVD's. Why is he your only competition?

**** it. Give details man
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You never work with your competitor when you both sell the same service. You buy out your competition to increase market share. The only possible non-service collaboration is possibly combining shipping through a common carrier if you can achieve a large enough volume discount. That's how Amazon gain additional revenue by doing that for all of its retail partners it provides distribution services for.
 

Mr. Wolf

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None of that is possible. Right now it's price war. I'm selling cheaper.


Would this help things? If we decide to sell that the same price and same shipping? However, contents are different..

He also sells other DVDs, and it looks like he is the only one on the market. I have access to every one of those DVDs.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Market share, that's the key to competition. You need to do something that will make you more noticeable. Remember what Microsoft did with their web browser which got them in trouble with the Justice Department? They saturated the market and thus mastered the market.

Consider cutting into his market by focusing on the key purchaser's likes and give them a better deal. Then go after another market, then another. You will continue to spin your wheels if all you are doing is undercutting across the board, you'll eventually end up losing revenue. With market share your margin per unit may be lower but you'll make it up with volume. Think about the XBox.
 
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