"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Business Approach

Tyrone Biggums

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I'm standing in Barns and Noble reading a photo mag minding my own business when some guy starts a conversation with me. The conversation usually leads to what I do for work and how much money I'm making. Then the guy pitches this "business" opportunity where I can make more cash on the side. Does this situation happen to you guys too? Are these "business" opportunities legit? This happens to me a lot.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some black guy approached me one time at the mall. He was pushy and wouldn't take no for an answer. Finally i told him i'm a lawyer and he practically tripped and fell trying to run away from me.

THe business he was trying to pitch is some pyramid scheme. The more people you recruit the more money you'll make. He told me to expect $35,000 the first year.

....Man, people are getting crazy by the day!
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
Look at it this way:

If you ran a legit, successful business, would your hiring strategy involve approaching random strangers in a bookstore?

No, I didn't think so either...
Good point.
 

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Theres a 99% chance its a scam (the other 1% chance is him being a terrorist/psycho).

These guys ruin business for everyone else. If what he's pitching is illegal, pretend to be sucked in, take down his details, and report him to the police.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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