"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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bushy eyebrows & spray on tans

iHatePants

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2 things that bug me the most on my body.

1. my bushy, hairy, thick eyebrows

2. my pale skin and not so great complextion

I pluck my unibrow often. Problem is I suck at it and I usually end up with one brow longer than the other. I can't seem to even the space between my eyebrows very well.
Would it be foolish to go to some hair removal place just to get my eye brows cleaned and trimmed up? Although I don't want them to over do it. Because I don't want to have feminine looknig eyebrows. I want my brows to maintain thier masculinity but just cleaner looking.

Secondly i've considered getting a fake tan for my pale skin and face. I'm not a red head. Problem is im a natural ectomorph (altohugh i've bulked up) and ectomorphs tend to have a hard time tanning and usually burn easier then endo and mesomorphs.
Has anyone had any experience with spray on tans? Whats the general reaction from girls? Im just afraid of what people who I know well will think of me after a tan. I see them one day as my pale self and the next day im tanned. Will the say I look better or will they be all like "why did you go pull a lindsay lohan on us?"

So fill me in you guys. Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LordBrian

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Good bloody god.

Since when did this become a beauty parlour?
a product can be used in any way...even in ways it was not meant to be used.

I have bushy eyebrows, so i recently started using nair to take care of it.. the trick is to put the stuff around, but not on the eyebrow... dont be too ambitious with it... because you might end up looking like micheal jackson :)

If you dont wanna try that... go to a salon...

Do you have the pale skin that doesnt tan? It just gets sunburned?
 

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or grow your hair, walk with a swagger, swear a lot, and go for the liam gallagher look!

:D
 

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Dont use a fake tan. That just makes you look wayyy to much into your appearance and you are gunna get made fun of more than complimented.

As far as bushy eyebrows, you can go to a salon and have them do it for you first, then u can just maintain it urself afterwards. Or to help with the bushyness, take a hair clipper and use a setting of like 2-3 and buzz ur eyebrows.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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and ectomorphs tend to have a hard time tanning and usually burn easier then endo and mesomorphs.
this makes entirely no sense at all.
 

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I'd at least give a concerted effort to real tanning (meaning outside in the sun) before you try beds or spray-on. I'm a definite ectomorph, usually pale, and I've gotten a great, real-sun-only tan this summer.
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
I'd at least give a concerted effort to real tanning (meaning outside in the sun) before you try beds or spray-on. I'm a definite ectomorph, usually pale, and I've gotten a great, real-sun-only tan this summer.
yeah, run outside in a tank top or something... Thats what i do...

Unfortunatly I am left with a moderatly pale chest... but im not too worred about that... ill prolly just to to a pool for a few hours and to take care of it.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
this makes entirely no sense at all.
The fat causes them to brown nicely? Like the difference between cooking with oil or on a bare pan maybe? :D

On a more serious note though....

WTF?!?!?!
 
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