"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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bushy eyebrows & spray on tans

iHatePants

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2 things that bug me the most on my body.

1. my bushy, hairy, thick eyebrows

2. my pale skin and not so great complextion

I pluck my unibrow often. Problem is I suck at it and I usually end up with one brow longer than the other. I can't seem to even the space between my eyebrows very well.
Would it be foolish to go to some hair removal place just to get my eye brows cleaned and trimmed up? Although I don't want them to over do it. Because I don't want to have feminine looknig eyebrows. I want my brows to maintain thier masculinity but just cleaner looking.

Secondly i've considered getting a fake tan for my pale skin and face. I'm not a red head. Problem is im a natural ectomorph (altohugh i've bulked up) and ectomorphs tend to have a hard time tanning and usually burn easier then endo and mesomorphs.
Has anyone had any experience with spray on tans? Whats the general reaction from girls? Im just afraid of what people who I know well will think of me after a tan. I see them one day as my pale self and the next day im tanned. Will the say I look better or will they be all like "why did you go pull a lindsay lohan on us?"

So fill me in you guys. Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Good bloody god.

Since when did this become a beauty parlour?
a product can be used in any way...even in ways it was not meant to be used.

I have bushy eyebrows, so i recently started using nair to take care of it.. the trick is to put the stuff around, but not on the eyebrow... dont be too ambitious with it... because you might end up looking like micheal jackson :)

If you dont wanna try that... go to a salon...

Do you have the pale skin that doesnt tan? It just gets sunburned?
 

Not Quite There

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or grow your hair, walk with a swagger, swear a lot, and go for the liam gallagher look!

:D
 

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Dont use a fake tan. That just makes you look wayyy to much into your appearance and you are gunna get made fun of more than complimented.

As far as bushy eyebrows, you can go to a salon and have them do it for you first, then u can just maintain it urself afterwards. Or to help with the bushyness, take a hair clipper and use a setting of like 2-3 and buzz ur eyebrows.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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and ectomorphs tend to have a hard time tanning and usually burn easier then endo and mesomorphs.
this makes entirely no sense at all.
 

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I'd at least give a concerted effort to real tanning (meaning outside in the sun) before you try beds or spray-on. I'm a definite ectomorph, usually pale, and I've gotten a great, real-sun-only tan this summer.
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
I'd at least give a concerted effort to real tanning (meaning outside in the sun) before you try beds or spray-on. I'm a definite ectomorph, usually pale, and I've gotten a great, real-sun-only tan this summer.
yeah, run outside in a tank top or something... Thats what i do...

Unfortunatly I am left with a moderatly pale chest... but im not too worred about that... ill prolly just to to a pool for a few hours and to take care of it.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
this makes entirely no sense at all.
The fat causes them to brown nicely? Like the difference between cooking with oil or on a bare pan maybe? :D

On a more serious note though....

WTF?!?!?!
 
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