"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bush parties?

Mr_rogers

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Just a really quick question. There's an outdoor party in my area this weekend and I'm curious - do any of the usual "party rules" as far as getting women change? Are there any other things to look for?

Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AKA FLEX

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Mr_rogers said:
Just a really quick question. There's an outdoor party in my area this weekend and I'm curious - do any of the usual "party rules" as far as getting women change? Are there any other things to look for?

Thanks.
I don't understand the question. Are you asking if you should act differently because it's an outdoor party? If so, no you shouldn't, just spread your game around like you would at any party and then assess where your best chances lie as the party draws closer to its end.
 

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yup, you gotta vibe, demonstrate social proof and must be comfortable appraoching groups.

THE LONGER U ARE BY YOURSELF THE CREEPIER YOU GET.
 
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