"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Burroughs....

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Nice! Glad I'm not the only one who thought those 2 were the same... for a time. Don't really have a problem with either, and had similar experiences. That **** hardens you, and makes you cynical and extreme. Even looking back at their / our tales - a lot of us were really nice, gullible, and weak at one point. The harsh realities of the world change that up, and create these positions and attitudes. But it's real talk, so it's all good. You can't not agree with a lot of it - even if it's extreme, rude, controversial, or whatever. Everyone has different ways of getting their point across, and just their natural way of being, or how they feel (sometimes strongly) towards certain things. Doesn't make them irrelevant, or "out of line". Don't respond to what you don't agree with, eh?

****, look at Tupac... He was vulgar, violent, extreme, in your face, and probably even crazy... but he still spoke a lot of truth, and people could relate to that. And it really is as harsh as he depicted. All the backstabbers, ho's, bishes, fake *******s, corrupt societies... It's all real. **** exists. It's not pleasant out there. And you DO feel strongly towards these things you experienced, and even become aggressive and violent as a result.

It is a pretty ***** thing to do, to "tell" on somebody, though. Even that one fag... never "told" on him, despite disagreeing and arguing constantly, with every new handle he comes up with. It's all good. :kick:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who the fvck of you even has prove that Burrito is gone because someone RAN to the mods and "told" on him?

Whatever, man. I hope that fool lives a miserable life out there and gets what's coming to him. Fvck Burroughs and fvck all the whining about his absence. I'm glad he's gone and hope it stays that way.
 
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I used to wish he would leave, but he grew on me and now I miss him.
 

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Die Hard said:
Who the fvck of you even has prove that Burrito is gone because someone RAN to the mods and "told" on him?

Whatever, man. I hope that fool lives a miserable life out there and gets what's coming to him. Fvck Burroughs and fvck all the whining about his absence. I'm glad he's gone and hope it stays that way.

...The End!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh poor burroughs, he stopped posting after being warned.

let's all feel sorry for him and give him a moment of respect.

all those bad people whined and complained and they broke burroughs's heart.

even the people who had to warn him are all upset now.

:(

What shall we do now?
 

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Lolz :cheer:
 

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bradd80 said:
No Burroughs just got sick and tired of being challenged by manginas on this website.

I won't name those manginas, but the rest of us know who they are.
Because what is a discussion board without ideals constantly being challenged?
 

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Don't accuse me of squealing, b!tch. I just put people I don't like on ignore.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ThunderMaverick said:
Don't accuse me of squealing, b!tch. I just put people I don't like on ignore.

MEN arguing about another MAN on a site that supposed to be about WOMEN. This thread is definitely on some pussified sht right now.
 

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goodganji44 said:
MEN arguing about another MAN on a site that supposed to be about WOMEN. This thread is definitely on some pussified sht right now.
and here you are.
 

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Sometimes I get the feeling I'm on a womens forum. The debate here is pointless.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Kind of like manginas taking the "report bad post" challenge and continually whining to mods?

Evidently not all of us were up to your "challenge" it seems.
Unless you were saying *your* in a plural...

I'll calm down now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your idea was welcoming ideas challenged was it not?

ThunderMaverick said:
Because what is a discussion board without ideals constantly being challenged?
Hence maybe some of these highly strung faggots crying to our mods should be taking your own advice which you related to Burroughs.
 

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Any male poster who hits the "report post" button should be immediately banned.
 

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You ladies do remember there's a limit of 10 posts per day right? You're better of using them constructively rather than for pointless squabbaling.
 

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Comparing PlayHerMan to Burroughs is a direct insult to PHM. They may share some of the same views but they are not the same person. PHM is a borderline genius IMO, his views may not be the same as mine, but 90% of his posts I agree with.

It's all about the presentation.

PHM is needed on this forum, Burroughs is not. That is the difference.
 
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