"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Burroughs....

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Slickster said:
^^^^

Isn't it obvious that PlayHerMan IS Burroughs?


1. Overuse of bold and red.

Ie. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=203370

2. Excessive use of the word faggot.

3. Both are Top 10 posters at SS over the past 2 years.

4. Both are from the East Coast.

5. Similar views of the world.

6. Appear in many of the same threads.

Ie. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=204491

7. Impeccable spelling

8. Nary a personal story or offering.



I'm just saying.....
So he usually PMs and replies to himself, that sounds kinda scary.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm Burroughs
 

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Playherman still want to deal with women , but Burroughs have the ideology of "MGTOW"
 

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Zarky said:
Whatever you think of my posts, I at least put thought and effort into them. So when a guy comes along and sh*ts in the threads that I've spent time trying to improve, then yes, that bothers me. Not because his words make me feel bad. I feel bad because it shows that my time is being wasted here. That's time I can never get back. That bugs me.
So why do you post here? If you feel that posting on this forum is a waste of time because the mods don't censor people who disagree with you, find another forum. I can even suggest one: loveshack. You will fit right in with the resident mangina crew over there. Just ask Gaylan.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mangina Faggots prevailing on SS, sad days
 

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Just put idiots you don't like on ignore. It's worked wonders ever since I put Iqqi on ignore. The annoying buzzing sound in my ear is gone. :D
 

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IIRC, burroughs had a kid, and his baby-momma is no longer with him..

explains it all right there

.. but he is one of the top members here
 

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Dear All,
OK you are all Burroughs,so it shouldn't be any problem to churn out something like this "Our main weakness as men lies within our inability to recognize when and how men are hated, we want so desperately to believe the illusion, we want so desperately to be liked and wanted and needed, that we have lost all sort of instinct for self preservation, to the point where we will literally jump in front of knives and bullets for women we dont even know."So go for it Burroughs look alikes!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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are we here to talk about women and self improvement, or here to eviscerate everyone? This thread would suggest the later.

listen, I know about the ugly truth of life. More than probably all of you. Its made me somewhat of a pessimist, but still try and make positive in my life when able. Its not easy. But from what I see on this thread, it seems people are not even focused on what matters, and continue to squabble over god knows what.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear All,
OK you are all Burroughs,so it shouldn't be any problem to churn out something like this "Our main weakness as men lies within our inability to recognize when and how men are hated, we want so desperately to believe the illusion, we want so desperately to be liked and wanted and needed, that we have lost all sort of instinct for self preservation, to the point where we will literally jump in front of knives and bullets for women we dont even know."So go for it Burroughs look alikes!
You got all of that just from someone joking about how they're Burroughs? I would love to be you for an hour and see what you see.


Actually, an hour might be too long...
 

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Burroughs couldn't have shut himself up, even if he wanted to.

Another piece of evidence why PlayHerMan has to be Burroughs, apart from his excessive and distasteful color use,

not to mention his eternal loyalty to the Oracle of Burroughs.

Come back, Burroughs .. PlayHerMan has been getting some heat lately, maybe he needs a vacation, too?

Boily Boily misses you.

:)

BTW, I never was offended by him, I actually quite like the man. He at least had a sense of humor.
 

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Writing styles are similar but I agree that PHM has a more caustic and deliberate style. Usually more aggressive and more hateful , but

he hasn't been attacking enough to get the attention Burroughs was getting. He'll get there. There is no shortage of "manginas" in their own words.

But still could be the same guy, should be very easy to check whether both accounts ever used the same IP address ...

We can never be sure of course.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mike32ct said:
Yes. That is so true that it made my jaw drop when I first read it.
Yeah, I thought that was clever the first time I read it - from Sigmund Freud.
 

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zekko said:
Yeah, I thought that was clever the first time I read it - from Sigmund Freud.
I'll admit it's true for me personally. At the risk of sounding like a total AFC sappy romantic wimp lol, I think a woman that loves you as much as (and unconditionally like) mom AND has sex with you regularly would be dream woman.

But that's not reality.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
We're trained to expect something resembling that by society. And something resembling that could be expected at one point in our history. Not anymore. Now you literally cannot go to these women for ANY emotional consolation or whatnot without instant reduction in their attraction for you. And while a relationship could survive such reductions in the past, it no longer can today with the endless options and attention wh0ring enforced by anti-"slvt shaming" feminist propaganda.

So while we are wrong to ever think we can have a "mother-esque" figure to love us unconditionally, we are not wrong to expect something at least a little bit better than a wolf at our back.
not trained, conditioned! we are still being sold the myth, the illusion. its powerful, pervasive, there are some women who provide it beacause they too have been sold the dream despite the emotional internal conflict, they also cling to it.
 

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Dear Thunder Maverick,
"You got all of that just from someone joking about how they're Burroughs?"....Well not completely Thunders if I may be familiar...Just as the British Morse Code Surveillance Technicians,listening to German Operators in War time Europe, were able to recognise individual operators by their "Fist",marking thousands of assignments handed in by Students in my past, often enabled me to sniff out those plagiarising others....So I can feel that those jokingly claiming to be Burroughs,are not...let them produce some original prose and we will believe them...For those unused to this,next time they see something impressively original and profound,feed a few key phrases into into Google,surprising the results sometimes!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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