"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lately things with my girl friend has turned sour, or however you call it. it doesnt really feel the same anymore our phone calls nothing. ive been emailing her like crazy like i usually do but even more crazier lately, ive spend hours upon hours making her pictures for her and there is still one i havnt shown her which took me like 10 hours to make adn i want to get it framed. but yeah her email lately have gotten very small, she doesnt relaly much call my house at night anymore, this is how it all began and then i let her know about it and we got in a argument and i suspected she was cheating on me (bad idea) and we fought a lot and she said seh promised she hasnt she just didnt want to talk to me or whatever. but past 2 nights she has called me but we just fought. i dont know whether to act like im hurt or bummed or depressed cus of all this or cheereful like everything is fine? I want to know what it would take to get things back on track. as far as i know she still loves me and im still in love with her. but i asked her what she thought our relationship was scale 1-10 she said it was a 7... i dont know what i need to do? just stop coming onto her so much and just worry about other things will that fix it or what? please help thanks.. cus i have been like pouring out my feelings to her and she doesnt really acknowledge it and she talks about something else.. and ive been telling her that i love her usually shed say it back but she hasnt been saying it back, but when im pissed off at her and im about to hang up on her she finally says "i love you", as if she is playing with my head.


its amazing how she turned me this way in just 1 week. before i had control she was obessing over me. now she is just like whatever and im obessing over her and im like all afraid of losing her.....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Read the Bible.


3 words.
 
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