"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Scaramouche

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Dear Jeremy Michael,
Great to find you posting here again,it seems like years....and that you are still hanging in there,Good for you....Aah...Bullies in Pubs,jobs,relationships...As a civilised Man you must appreciate that however it seems,it is not personal,not exclusively directed at You...To do otherwise is to be vain...Their problems go back years .....At six foot three you can easily just brush them off like annoying flies...But Jeremy,a man who flits over to Switzerland for a Sundays Business should move on from bottom feeding in Bars...great to see you back mate.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hello Scaramouche,

Thanks for your nice comments - appreciated greatly. However I haven't posted in years, the above responses are from a post I start a few years ago. I'm still here lurking in the shadows but no news to post (on my love life) due to dating advice fatigue and I have been really busy with work!. Will post again soon.

All the best,

Jez
 

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Hell Jeremy,
you live in the Home of Ballroom Dancing.....sign up for a set of lessons....your age will be no impediment....Yeah tough for six months then you will be able to Dance...Promise...Just learn Slow rhythm Foxtrot,Cha-Cha,Waltz and Swing....Take it seriously,develop a shorthand for the steps,write them down methodically,get a Dance CD,then practise at home on the carpet...after a few months have a session a week with a teacher...I promise you,if you can get past Rookie Camp,you will have at least half a dozen Birds,who you know,maybe a couple of phone numbers.go to Social Dances,they are everywhere in England...I Promise you will never go back to Pubs.
 

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Dear All,
To the Macho Guys out there,fighting is like Swimming,you are statistically far more likely to drown if you can swim,than if you cant...If you want to play fisticuffs with the big Boys you will just get hurt,no matter how good you are.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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