"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bulking up with bodyweight exercises

allstar3004

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whats up everybody

im 5'8"
156 pounds
i am planning on gaining muscle mass over the summer. is it possible to gain alot of muscle mass just by using dumbbells and bodyweight exercises if i eat alot of protein and follow a healthy diet?

thnx in advance
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JoeSchmoe05

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heh, yea i was wondering the same thing and am looking to get some dumbbells... im pretty convince the answer to that is a yes. if you get a good set, you can do a lot of exercises with them
 

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You can build mass in some areas with bodyweight exercises, such as pull-ups or handstand push-ups, but ideally you're gonna want a really good dumbell set, that has enough weight to challenge you as you improve. For legs use the heaviest dumbells you can and do lunges and deadlifts to failure.
 

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Are people not reading posts on exactly the same subject like only 3-4 days ago, or is it people keep on asking the same question until somebody says yes.:rolleyes:
 

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Strength gain = size gain, if you're eating properly. When your strength gains stop your size gains will stop - therefore you'd gain some size with your dumbbells and bodyweight exercises but only up to a point.

The short answer is yes, you can put on some mass, but once you've conquered your heaviest available weights don't expect any more gains!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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