"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Epicwinguy

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I have a simple question that isn't really clearly answered according to my sources. Is it true that I need to be low body fat before building muscle, or is that just if I want to look good? From what I deduce from what I have read you will gain mostly fat if you are above 15% body fat and you have to be below that for optimal muscle growth. If this is not true, is it still a bad idea to try and build muscle/strength then cut later when I start to look fat?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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None of that really matters; the limiting factor, for appearance at least, almost entirely falls on your genetics.

What you really should focus on more than anything is diet and sleep. The programs/routines/systems barely matter as long as you're consistent about them.

It's very hard, if not outright impossible, for most natties to put on muscle mass without also increasing their fat mass, or lose fat without also losing muscle mass. But, it is theoretically possible for a natty with **** genetics if they have a perfect diet, perfect sleep schedule, and perfect workout system in place. The difficulty is that almost no one knows what the perfect diet/routine is, because human physiology is extremely complex and variable.

Many celebrities can transform their bodies into an ideal physique, but that's because they have experts who plan and prep all their meals and workouts. Then again, you never really hear about the celebrities who try this and fail, so it's not exactly clear how achievable it really is.
 
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Epicwinguy

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None of that really matters; the limiting factor, for appearance at least, almost entirely falls on your genetics.

What you really should focus on more than anything is diet and sleep. The programs/routines/systems barely matter as long as you're consistent about them.

It's very hard, if not outright impossible, for most natties to put on muscle mass without also increasing their fat mass, or lose fat without also losing muscle mass. But, it is theoretically possible for a natty with **** genetics if they have a perfect diet, perfect sleep schedule, and perfect workout system in place. The difficulty is that almost no one knows what the perfect diet/routine is, because human physiology is extremely complex and variable.

Many celebrities can transform their bodies into an ideal physique, but that's because they have experts who plan and prep all their meals and workouts. Then again, you never really hear about the celebrities who try this and fail, so it's not exactly clear how achievable it really is.
I don’t care much about looking good right now. I just want to get stronger but was under the impression I needed low body fat to build muscle.
 

Poonani Maker

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perfect sleep schedule
that's my problem, usually get only 6 or 7 hours per night, and I think that Anthony Robbins' advice from many years ago that 4 hours is all you need tainted my sleep patterns and habits through the years, working out in 3, 2, 1... I really wanna jump on the pullup bar at the park but with all this high pollution levels in the air I'll forgo pullups for a second day in a row, pullups give you the "V" which makes you "attractive," with clothes and without (as long as you don't neglect your main routine of whole-body development - I tend to forgo leg workouts but am running and jumpropping and shadowboxing etc so the legs get "worked out" just not with weights and they are big enough for my liking)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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