"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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im currently on diesel's bulking program, mainly with deads, squats, bench, shoulder press, and bicep/tricep excercises...however, there were no ab excercises listed, but i do crunches anyways once a week...

since the body grows in proportion, does it mean in order for my chest to grow, my waist has to grow as well? i have a 28 waist and a 38 chest (it went up from a 34)...my waist size stayed the same, and if i am aiming for a 42 chest, does it mean i have to proportionally add mass to my waist as well?

if so, what excercises do i do to increase my waist size?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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But obviously, your waist will grow some muscles as your chest (and body) gets bigger. You just can't avoid that
 

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Re:

The abs are constantly worked in everyday life. They're already a six pack, but those who don't see them have too much bodyfat. Even scrawny guys who don't lift have six pack abs. Training abs boils down to a few purposes...

1. If you're attempting to build "core" strength beyond what you do in everyday life to lift more weight squatting and dead lifting.

2. If you're training specifically for a sport.

When I played a few games of flag and tackle football, my abs were killing from the jumping and tossing around, as I can handle the squats and deads, but not the intensity for over an hour that football placed on my abs. It's rare a person would end up expanding their waste and diminish any V they might attain, unless they're on drugs to do it. Growing abs, like calves, is a bit tougher, and any sizeable gains aren't likely to be seen easily since they're don't represent much, like a growing chest, thighs, glutes, biceps, triceps, back, or traps would. Any growth in those areas will stretch a shirt in some fashion.

When you say waist, you're referring to your abs, as they plug right down to your pelvis and genitals. And no muscle would be added to the abs, not under a normal diet with normal genetics. Abnormal genetics or abnormal dieting plus juice "might" do it, even then, a guy would want toned muscles, but not bigger toned muscles on the stomach as it would diminish the protruding chest you've worked so hard to achieve.

I see lots of people do hanging leg curls, and leg raises, and that's fine. It keeps you fit, it builds core strength so you can improve your athletic ability, and possibly gain in lifts. It doesn't spot reduce. And it doesn't ab alot of definition. Any perceived definition is the reduction of fat all over, the last of which is stripped from the midsection. I haven't done any, but I do 'different' ab stretches...like standing stretches, where I arch far back and contract my abs, or I do vacuums, something Arnold did, and also back bridges, that stretch it the opposite direction. I own a book by Matty Furey called combat abs. Probably the best book to alternative ab exercises that doesn't require weights or machines, and gets your abs tough enough to handle most sports fatigue.



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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Could a person do those kegel things with their abs that chicks do with their pvssy where they tighten, hold, release, as they sit at work or in class? Would that work like situps? Both laughter and coughing each seem to be good for the abs.

this chick is really into kegels:
http://www.geocities.com/hotsprings/spa/4502/vagex.html

and this is way off topic, but I am laughing too hard to not share it:
http://www.geocities.com/hotsprings/spa/4502/vagfacts.html
Doctors confirm that it is possible for an exercised vagina to shoot ping pong balls
 
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