"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bulking and cutting

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Guys, I need your advice. When I cut (2000cals, more than 2g protein per kg weight, LC) I usually loose 1kg muscle for each 2kg of fat I loose. When I bulk (3000cals, 2g protein per kg weight, LC) I usually gain slightly less than 2kg of fat for each 1kg of gained muslce. That means that, over time, I am basically not going anywhere in terms of body composition.

What can I do to offset that ratio and maybe gain more muslce when bulking and/or loose less muscle when cutting?

Some people write I should do lot of strangth training at least 5 times a week when cutting (I dont understand that since that process is catabolic and breaks down muscle and should hence add to my muscle loss). Then people write that you can exercise about 3 times a week during bulking despite adding like 500cals to the diet and maybe reducing protein intake.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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In order to cut and save muscle you need to keep cortisol low so avoid stress at all cost and when not possible buy supplements that do it for you.

Lean xtreme works as a blessing and the before 2013 versione even more, it was almost as running a cycle.
 

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Here you go dude.

This video basically tells me that it doesn't matter what you do long term, the result is same. In my case I am not seeing much progress at all in term of composition for about a year which means I do something wrong but cant figure out what.
 

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In order to cut and save muscle you need to keep cortisol low so avoid stress at all cost and when not possible buy supplements that do it for you.

Lean xtreme works as a blessing and the before 2013 versione even more, it was almost as running a cycle.
Thanks for the tip
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This video basically tells me that it doesn't matter what you do long term, the result is same. In my case I am not seeing much progress at all in term of composition for about a year which means I do something wrong but cant figure out what.
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