"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bulk and Lose Fat

MrGold

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Ive been training for about one year on and off. Ive put on 20lbs, most of which has been muscle, my fat percentage has remained roughly the same. I'm currently 189lbs and 6ft2. How do i carry on making gains and trim fat at the same time? My last reosrt would be to change my program to accomodate for a 'toning' workout and increased cardio. Any suggestions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warboss Alex

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MrGold said:
My last reosrt would be to change my program to accomodate for a 'toning' workout and increased cardio. Any suggestions?
That's the best way to lose mass.. keep your training the same, and instead focus on cleaner eating, more cardio, maybe some zerocarb under maintainance days, no cheats..

It's easier if you just tell us your current diet and routine
 

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Currently training 5days a week.

Mon - Shoulders, Inner Chest
Tues - Back
Weds - Legs
Thurs - Triceps, Chest
Friday - Biceps, Deadlifts.

Diet consists of -

Breakfast - Oats, coupla banana's, milk (semi-skimmed).
Pre-lunch snack - Tuna sandwichs
Lunch - Jacket Potatoes, Tuna filling, whatever the hell they serve in the caf when they dont have jackets, usually not that bad, Fish beans (refuse fries)
Pre-dinner - Sardines/mackerel (Try to have my fill of oily fish to keep up on the Omega-3's)
Ive kinda cut out dinner as im sticking to the "no carbs after 6" rule.
I'll have a can of tuna before bed plus about a pint of milk.

I know its alot of tuna, but i really dont eat alot of meat
 

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cut out the milk if you can, it has a lot of carbs and isn't all that great for you. replace potatoes with brown rice or more beans. eat roughly the same amount but split it into 8 meals instead. the less carbs the easier is will be to stay trim.
 

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I think switching to a more protein+fat based diet rather than a high carb one will show some changes in body composition without any other special effort. save the carbs for around workouts and maybe a carb day once a week.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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