After reading Pooks post ¡§Be a man¡¨. Having back bone, strong, ambitious etc. For all the newbies ¡§Read the post¡¨ =) I developed a system or way of thinking, with the aid of Pook¡¦s post, which has helped me immensely in my daily life.
For the stupid stupid people who just want to get laid or want a quick fix, do not read this post.
This is about self improvement, about working hard, to cultivate your personality and increasing your potential and becoming who you want to be for the long term of your life.
So back to Pook¡¦s ¡§Be a man¡¨ Post. Use this as guidelines, a foundation. You will not feel weird, because it is our nature to act this way, because we are man!
¡§Be a man¡¨ by pook „» http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16903
When you have that strong foundation of being a man, being in control, prince charming etc. No matter what you do, you can¡¦t fail, because it is so strong, that you naturally do not worry about little things, and you simply improve your personality etc, on top of this foundation.
But it¡¦s the foundation that gives you the strength, decisiveness, backbone, and that passionate will to take action. It¡¦s what gives the energy and the attitude to pick yourself up naturally, with this foundation you naturally avoid, weird, clingy feelings from slipping into your mind, because you know better than to worry about little things. You must ensure that your foundation is strongly built. Then work from that. ¡§Every moment, every action, and everyday is a day to work on and add to your foundation.
You can either increase the power of your foundation or weaken it! No one is going to give you this brilliant attitude and mindset, it¡¦s up to you to cultivate your personality and skills on top of it, which gives you this pride.
Not ego, but pride, this is where you achieve something and you are proud of what you have achieved, where ego is simply thinking you are the ****s! But taking no real action to achieving it. So develop this pride, which ultimately makes your foundation even stronger. You can either add or increase it with your ambitions and desires or you sit around and let is decrease with your little worries and every little thing that happens to you.
It is our part to build upon this foundation we should live our everyday life with this mindset that, nature, God has already given us. And develop from it.
No wonder, some people are so uncertain of what to do, who they are, because they have no foundation, no mindset to work from, and they have nothing to build from or cultivate from.
They live everyday in a thought of confusion, analysis and technique simply to survive from the stresses of everyday life, rather than getting out there and really enjoying life.
This foundation is solid, meaning without compromise, you do not change your foundation for anyone. Your composure is kept.
An e.g. I imagine James bond, he¡¦s foundation is strong, no matter what happens to him, he does not change his composure, if a chic doesn¡¦t seem all to interested in him at first, even stand-offish.
He does not go off like a girl, and analyse. He does not worry about these things, because he¡¦s foundation is so strong, that nothing can shake it. He is a man, he knows that he¡¦s prince charming and that no girl can resist him, and if so, it¡¦s her loss. But in the end, James always ends up getting the girl.
See the problem with nice guys out there, is as soon as the girl starts acting weird on them, stand-offish, *****y etc. Their foundation if they have one, their composure is completely shaken, and the woman shapes their personality. They begin to act weird and don¡¦t know how to handle the situation, when you have this strong foundation, implemented in you, you no longer worry about these little things, you are never shaped from the negative aspects of life, because your foundation of being a man is so strong.
This foundation/mindset is not simply thinking, or imitation, because ¡§imitation is suicide¡¨. You are building up this mindset and foundation to keep it strong. You do not act decisive by just simply saying I¡¦m decisive, you feel it, because your foundation is so strong that it is your nature. You are a man!
But you must act on top of this, to keep its strength and keep it growing and improving. The ideal of improving because of things you want externally eg. to get a girl, to get laid. Sure it¡¦ll give you a rush and a bit of motivation at first. But these things do not last, your brain is constantly changing, and we get bored of things easily, so this ideal is very short term and you lose motivation to keep going and your mindset, foundation will no longer be strong.
This is why it¡¦s not a good idea, to focus on getting things, because you will always lose your motivation in the end, therefore the focus should be on yourself and constant improvement, and what you will become in the long term of your life. For that is the only way you are going to continuously build upon your foundation, making it strong and at the same time, achieve your goals, get the things that you want and become a great person.
For the stupid stupid people who just want to get laid or want a quick fix, do not read this post.
This is about self improvement, about working hard, to cultivate your personality and increasing your potential and becoming who you want to be for the long term of your life.
So back to Pook¡¦s ¡§Be a man¡¨ Post. Use this as guidelines, a foundation. You will not feel weird, because it is our nature to act this way, because we are man!
¡§Be a man¡¨ by pook „» http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16903
When you have that strong foundation of being a man, being in control, prince charming etc. No matter what you do, you can¡¦t fail, because it is so strong, that you naturally do not worry about little things, and you simply improve your personality etc, on top of this foundation.
But it¡¦s the foundation that gives you the strength, decisiveness, backbone, and that passionate will to take action. It¡¦s what gives the energy and the attitude to pick yourself up naturally, with this foundation you naturally avoid, weird, clingy feelings from slipping into your mind, because you know better than to worry about little things. You must ensure that your foundation is strongly built. Then work from that. ¡§Every moment, every action, and everyday is a day to work on and add to your foundation.
You can either increase the power of your foundation or weaken it! No one is going to give you this brilliant attitude and mindset, it¡¦s up to you to cultivate your personality and skills on top of it, which gives you this pride.
Not ego, but pride, this is where you achieve something and you are proud of what you have achieved, where ego is simply thinking you are the ****s! But taking no real action to achieving it. So develop this pride, which ultimately makes your foundation even stronger. You can either add or increase it with your ambitions and desires or you sit around and let is decrease with your little worries and every little thing that happens to you.
It is our part to build upon this foundation we should live our everyday life with this mindset that, nature, God has already given us. And develop from it.
No wonder, some people are so uncertain of what to do, who they are, because they have no foundation, no mindset to work from, and they have nothing to build from or cultivate from.
They live everyday in a thought of confusion, analysis and technique simply to survive from the stresses of everyday life, rather than getting out there and really enjoying life.
This foundation is solid, meaning without compromise, you do not change your foundation for anyone. Your composure is kept.
An e.g. I imagine James bond, he¡¦s foundation is strong, no matter what happens to him, he does not change his composure, if a chic doesn¡¦t seem all to interested in him at first, even stand-offish.
He does not go off like a girl, and analyse. He does not worry about these things, because he¡¦s foundation is so strong, that nothing can shake it. He is a man, he knows that he¡¦s prince charming and that no girl can resist him, and if so, it¡¦s her loss. But in the end, James always ends up getting the girl.
See the problem with nice guys out there, is as soon as the girl starts acting weird on them, stand-offish, *****y etc. Their foundation if they have one, their composure is completely shaken, and the woman shapes their personality. They begin to act weird and don¡¦t know how to handle the situation, when you have this strong foundation, implemented in you, you no longer worry about these little things, you are never shaped from the negative aspects of life, because your foundation of being a man is so strong.
This foundation/mindset is not simply thinking, or imitation, because ¡§imitation is suicide¡¨. You are building up this mindset and foundation to keep it strong. You do not act decisive by just simply saying I¡¦m decisive, you feel it, because your foundation is so strong that it is your nature. You are a man!
But you must act on top of this, to keep its strength and keep it growing and improving. The ideal of improving because of things you want externally eg. to get a girl, to get laid. Sure it¡¦ll give you a rush and a bit of motivation at first. But these things do not last, your brain is constantly changing, and we get bored of things easily, so this ideal is very short term and you lose motivation to keep going and your mindset, foundation will no longer be strong.
This is why it¡¦s not a good idea, to focus on getting things, because you will always lose your motivation in the end, therefore the focus should be on yourself and constant improvement, and what you will become in the long term of your life. For that is the only way you are going to continuously build upon your foundation, making it strong and at the same time, achieve your goals, get the things that you want and become a great person.
