"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Building up friendship/trust.(A little incite on what worked for me)

Crissco

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I know some of this is against the DJ Principles. I did this before I even knew about that site and I was still getting pus*sy. Worth a shot to see if anyone else were sucessful with this. And obv be spinning other plates on the side, thats a given.




I came to notice if I build up a friendship with the girl first, shes going to trust me a lot more obvious. As long as I kino, be diffrent then others, and keep her on her toes I dont get stuck in the friendzone. I wouldnt go longer then 2 weeks tho. I would act like she was my girlfrined, play fight, tease kino...
I noticed this when I really wasnt attracted to the girl and didnt give a sh*t if I was going to be stuck in the friendszone or not. Guess she picked up on that and the sexual tension build up over time, after that, I got what I wanted, when I wanted.

I also came to realize this works only on certian girls, other girls if you play ur cards right, will put out the first or second time you see them...Others will friendzone you if you wait to long.

I think what made this work was the kinoing, not giving a crap, being diffrent then other guys, and the sexual tension that build up over time, and the fact I built up her trust. Im thinking it was more a subconious thing on her part, then she started to think about it more and the feelings build up when we weren't together. Plus the fact everywhere I walked I acted like I owned that place.

A little incite on what worked for me
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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