"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Building up friendship/trust.(A little incite on what worked for me)

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I came to notice if I build up a friendship with the girl friend, shes going to trust me a lot more obvious. As long as I kino, be diffrent then others, and keep her on her toes I dont get stuck in the friendzone. I wouldnt get this go longer then 2 weeks tho. I noticed this when I really wasnt attracted to the girl and didnt give a sh*t if I was going to be stuck in the friendszone or not. Guess she picked up on that and the sexual tension build up over time, after that, I got what I wanted, when I wanted.

I also came to realize this works only on certian girls, other girls if you play ur cards right, will put out the first or second time you see them...Others will friendzone you if you wait to long.

I think what made this work was the kinoing, not giving a crap, being diffrent then other guys, and the sexual tension that build up over time. Plus the fact everywhere I walked I acted like I owned that place.

A little incite on what worked for me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good points. They will friendzone only if you don't show your interest right of the bet and remain completely asexual.
 
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Exactly, give it a week, week and a half the most. Seem busy, but talk on the phone as much as u can so you can build up trust. Will make things 100x easier for when you do meet up for the first or second time.

Itll be like you two knew each other forever.
 
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