"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Building up friendship/trust.(A little incite on what worked for me)

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I came to notice if I build up a friendship with the girl friend, shes going to trust me a lot more obvious. As long as I kino, be diffrent then others, and keep her on her toes I dont get stuck in the friendzone. I wouldnt get this go longer then 2 weeks tho. I noticed this when I really wasnt attracted to the girl and didnt give a sh*t if I was going to be stuck in the friendszone or not. Guess she picked up on that and the sexual tension build up over time, after that, I got what I wanted, when I wanted.

I also came to realize this works only on certian girls, other girls if you play ur cards right, will put out the first or second time you see them...Others will friendzone you if you wait to long.

I think what made this work was the kinoing, not giving a crap, being diffrent then other guys, and the sexual tension that build up over time. Plus the fact everywhere I walked I acted like I owned that place.

A little incite on what worked for me.
 

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Good points. They will friendzone only if you don't show your interest right of the bet and remain completely asexual.
 
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Exactly, give it a week, week and a half the most. Seem busy, but talk on the phone as much as u can so you can build up trust. Will make things 100x easier for when you do meet up for the first or second time.

Itll be like you two knew each other forever.
 
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