"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Building the Chest from every angle??

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does anyone else have a problem building the upper part of the chest..meaning the very upper part?

i have a lot of muscle in the mid and lower pectorals, but theres not much muscle at all towards the upper regions.

heres my current chest routine (all reps are 10 or less)

4 sets DB bench
4 sets incline bench
2 sets decline bench
2 sets cable pulls

also, what exercises are good at building muscle so that theres not a big gap between the two pecs???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I am curious as to the gap part myself... but I think it is just pure genetics. As for the top of the chest just do heavy inclines and alternate cable flys and dips to shape them.
 

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Do inclines first in your routine with DB's to stress the upper pecs.

Why do you not want the gap between your pecs? It's a sign of low bodyfat %.
 

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Try a steeper incline than conventional "wisdom" would dictate, go for 45-50 degrees rather than the accepted 30. Also try neck presses, a favourite of Vince Gironda, a man ahead of his time and trainer to a number of bodybuilders and Hollywood stars from the 1940s through to the 90s. You set up as if doing a regular flat bench but bring the bar down to your neck. Obviously no bouncing on this one!
 

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some good ideas here.

im gona try doing a couple sets of inclines with a steeper angle and try to keep the dumbells more over my chest so that i work the upper pecs but lessen work coming from the shoulder.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah I had the same problem. I just started using 15 pound dumbells and layed on my back and mocked buterfly movements.
Cured my gap better then ever. NOw its all even out.
 

DarkfalconIV

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Cabels might work to. I don't know the only thing I ever use for work otus is 15 pound dumbells.

Do pushups to. Those help pecs in general
 
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