Building Interest over text

[LandingWood]

Anyone have an example of this being done?
How do you do it

 

[RangerMIke]

Good question... IMO I do not think this is possible. I think texting can lower interest, but I really don't think it can improve interest, the reason is that there is no way you can read body language and guage response in interaction. It's like driving to a location without a map or street signs.

 

[AttackFormation]

If someone tells you that texting can be negative in some cases, they would be right. But I don't for one second buy the idea that you can't do anything positive with texting, you would have to be wilfully ignorant, completely unexperienced or really really bad at it to say so.

 

[Honda1990]

You're better off keeping texting to a minimum and relying on phone calls to gauge interest; even then, keeping it to a minimum. Do you want to risk ending up a text buddy and feeding her attention, or would you rather cut to the chase and meet up for drinks, pool, etc?

IMO texting hurts more than it helps.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

Less is more.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

All good response, the only time I really like or see a benefit from TEXT it is when the ground work has already been laid so to speak & you've hit already a couple times. Tease them a little bit throughtout the day, warm them up some, knowing your gunna smash it good when you see them. But again very minimal.

Sexting if you will......good way to get sum t*tty & a** pics!

Keep all your stories & funny sh*t for the time you are with them.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Hockey freak can u elaborate i got no idea how todo this

 

[LandingWood]

My problem is all my pulls come from Facebook or Snapchat and usually I can't just try and push for a meetup. I just end up with them either not responding or it not going anywhere.

This is why I want to learn to build interest using text/facebook

 

[LMFAO]

I actually disagree. I don't always do it but sometimes I push their buttons via texting before the date (once it's already been arranged). I am not looking for a good girl who I have to have 10 dates before she decides that she actually loves sex, I rather get it over and done with in the first and second date. If the relationship develops great, if not I have 20 other girls on my phone. So I sexualise via text before the date, on more rare occasions over the phone a little as well. Not too much just a few back and forth comments. Then hope she's warmed up enough for the date not to bore me. They know what to expect that way, I'm not there to talk to them about politics and war. It helped me bang a couple of girls recently on the first date

I use some pull and push, asking them what their views are on charming men and then escalate with some small subtleties on perhaps she requires a physical consultation for sitting on her ass all day, something about whispering sweet nothings in her ear telling her what I'll do to her. I then judge their reactions whether I'm wasting my time or not.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Guys who say texting kills game are probably too old or dont know how to text. I see girls texting their main slam all the time. Just use common sense.