"building a team"..

[dice]

Ever since I joined this site I've wondered this, and I've made this post in various different ways all asking the same question and I've never really been given a suitable answer..

Do Don Juans really expect girls to be okay with being "on your team". We're expecting women to be okay with the fact that we're hitting other women at the same time. I could understand if the DJ philosophy was to lie to them and say that you're not banging other women and hide it, atleast that makes sense, but from what I gather you're supposed to not hide the fact that you're banging multiple girls from your girls.. are you serious?

It seems like the goal of the DJ is to have meaningless sex as much as possible with many girls. My question is how can sex realize its full potential when you're not doing it with someone you can call yours and vice versa.

 

[spider_007]

It seems like the goal of the DJ is to have meaningless sex as much as possible with many girls. My question is how can sex realize its full potential when you're not doing it with someone you can call yours and vice versa.

Everybody here has different goals. Some guys just want a gurlfriend, other want to nail as many women as they can.....

Apperently women value honesty, so if your honest about your intentions, and she feels comforatable enought around you...and she is having fun around you...and it's all hush hush (nobody is gona find out)....some women don't mind being part of that team (not too many people around here can pull it off though).

it's all up to you....this site gives you the tools, it's upto you how you wana use them.

 

[dice]

okay, what about if she is bangin other guys? As Don Juans, do we care since we would do the same to her ?

 

[tryin 2 play]

I don' think you can really tell her not to bang other guys if youre banging other girls.

 

[Krassus]

It's all about frame control. You can make ANYTHING seem normal, healthy and socially acceptable if you want to. Luckily, male polygamy IS normal, healthy and if it isn't, SHOULD be socially acceptable. You have to build up the frame so that it seems like a natural part of your life, one that fits your character in a positive manner. Once you get it right, no one will even THINK to question it! I remember reading a story about a girl who met this guy who told her, before they even have sex that he "loves many" and that polygamy is the natural, healthy way of life. She initially shot him down, but couldn't get the concept out of her head and eventually started hooking up with him to explore herself. That's the way it works. Be honest and upfront about it, and act like it's nothing to shy away from because it ISN'T.