"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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kenichi

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in order to improve, i need to talk to more people that are puas and im sure i could provide some opinions and some encouragement. no social robots please.

my aim is
kenichipua
my msn is
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stuntmann

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Hint, it's DJ's body language, eye contact, approach to problems, voice tone that you're not getting online.
 

Rudy_TubeSteak

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You don't even need to find PUA's..you can just observe the basic interaction between a man and a woman whose about to "hit it". Just make sure you don't look like a pervert when you do so. Check out the buying signals. And as much as people hate it..EXPERIENCE is the best teacher..and let me tell you AFCs hate experience :)

One other thing, I've made friends with real attractive and nice girls. I made sure that I never get attractive to them too and actually become real good friends. You will find that she eventually becomes the wingwoman and a great social proof. She will also have hot friends. And guess what, real PUAs will be hitting on her and so in return you can be friends with him too. Two birds with one stone.
 

kenichi

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what i want is some more people to talk to when i need some insight, opinions and advice, and possibly give some to them. i already go out and have friends and learned a lot in field and that's not a problem. I just need some good advice, some reassurance and possibly a cool person to talk to kind of thing.
 
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