"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Building a Life

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Don Juan
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Hi
I’m actually having a bit of problems with the game and just my whole life, and I thought people could help me with what they think maybe their advice could help me. If you feel like your advice would help stop by and write back to my post. I’m kind of going to write everything in random because I took notes on a paper, so I’m just transferring them over to the computer.
I’m 16, A junior in high school. I live recently moved to Miami 2 weeks ago from Canada.
Things are really different here, and of course I know nobody, which isn’t cool.
I’m new to the school and the state so I want to meet new people.
I use to have low self-esteem, really bad self-esteem. People still liked me though, I play sports so people always liked me. I always thought I was inferior to everybody, and that I couldn’t attract any girls. Now I know that attraction is not a choice, it’s you that creates it, I have to say I’ve made a lot of improvements in my self-esteem. I’ve read lots of books that improved my self-esteem and scars I had from the back. I’m really proud of myself for that. Every time something bad happened like a rejection as example, I always got right up. I was never good with women honestly well I was but I just never was social my parents didn’t let me go out much so I was introverted, not talking much.
That transferred to me being shy. By reading all those books to improve my self-esteem and going out there to meet new people I can officially say I’m not shy anymore.
I’ve forced myself to go to parties with my friends on many occasions. Even if the idea of going to party that I don’t know no one in. The idea of just going to the party terrified me but I still went. I WANT TO IMPROVE MY GAME WITH GIRLS BUT LIKE MYSTERY SAID’’ ITS ABOUT BUILDING A LIFE’’
I’m at a new school I really want to meet some girls, theres plenty of pretty girls but I don’t want to chase them. I want to be the alpha male, I want to have ‘’TIGHT GAME’’
I want to be a more interesting person, more fun. I want to have fun at my new high school and state but I don’t know anybody. I know all the girls at the high school I’m at find me attractive I’m just so good looking, like denzel Washington. Looks only get you so far. I’m athletic, play football. When I get in a class situation I get scared of talking and I hate it. I’m at a point in my game where I just don’t know what to do right now. I want to build a better life for myself, have confidence good self-esteem.
I want to have ultimate confidence. Another game my mind plays with me is when I see a good looking girl with a guy, I always say he can get that girl because he better looking then me. Which I know it’s not true but it just happens, so I still have some self-esteem problems. I’m on a 100 approach goal for myself before Christmas, I have 94 to go.
It’s just I’m in a new state, and not knowing people really sucks, so should I go around acting like I don’t care if I fit in? I don’t know what to do. I keep on dwelling on how I could have been if I was at my old high school. I say I have a lot of improvement to go.

I really want to be the player of that high school. I want to make a name for myself at this new high school I’m at. I want to start fresh.
Get all the cute girls, I know its possible. But girls are not my number # priority first it’s god then it’s my family, then school. The reason I live on this earth is God . Being in a relationship with a girl is not the reason I live on this earth. Like there’s girls everywhere at my school, not that there all perfect, but I would like to have the choice to choose which one I want. I want to know how to talk to them. How to do it, theres girls in my classes, I just don’t know how to meet them.
It would be cool if you the community could help me on what I’m going through.
I really like to ‘’DREAM BIG’’ because I know I will become a great
PICKUP ARTIST. Just leave your opinion
DREAM BIG
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I noticed you said that it's not cool you don't know anybody at your new school.


That is a terrible attitude. All of these new people don't know anything about your past, nothing about what you were labeled for at your old school. Your a new person, show all those new people what you are!
 
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