Build attraction with her friends

[jdon23]

So you finally got off your ass and talked to an attractive woman? Great!!

Not only did you do THAT, but you also created attraction and got her genuinely interested in you! You are improving by strides and bounds, my friend!

You went out a few times and you escalated kino and got her to get all hot and bothered for you! Wohoo! Success is great!

So one night you go out together, but this time its different. She's with her friends! 'Oh well.' you say. 'I can't lose her now! Who cares about her friends?' You act like they aren't even there and your conversations are very bland and uninteresting. Who cares right? You don't HAVE to create attraction with her friends. All of the sudden, she starts calling you less and less frequently and every time she seems more distant and standoffish. What happened??? You HAD her!

I'll tell you. You failed the Friend Test. You didn't make a good enough impression on her friends.

The more favorable opinion her friends have of you, the better your relationship will be with the one you want.

It works two ways. You create a bad impression, and they will feed her bad stuff about you. You create a GREAT impression, and they will constantly be helping you when you aren't there. "Ohhh how are you and jdon?? He is so laid-back and fun!! The sex must be amazing!!" She will get excited to talk to you about her friends and good stuff will happen.

Now i'm not saying to kiss her friends' asses. All i'm saying is that you must form some sort of attraction with her friends. Get them to like you and enjoy your company.

If you take this route and make her friends attracted to you, your job will become MUCH easier!

Good luck!

 

[slaog]

very true


If her friends like you it raises your value. If they're saying good things about you then the girl will feel better knowing that she's with a popular man.

 

[playerone]

Yeah, but do you go friend-style on them, or the usual C&F, attraction stuff?

 

[jdon23]

Yeah, but do you go friend-style on them, or the usual C&F, attraction stuff?

Basically you want to create an aura of attraction between you and her friends. Treat her friends how you would treat the girl you're after. Don't try too hard, and inversely, don't fall on the side of caution. Be ballsy. Say what you want.

You want her friends to think the same way of you that this one girl does.


If you do this right, it will work EVERY way in your favor.

They all become jealous over you. All her friends find you very attractive and sexy. The ONE your "with" will cling onto you much tighter because she knows your a prize and all her friends know it too

Depending on your level of commitment, I would be wary of banging her friends. There's nothing wrong with flirting though. But its very hard to find a woman who won't gab about her love life to someone. And once it comes around, it will do more damage than what it was worth. Oh well, its up to you in the end.


I have also found that there is usually one 'friend' who will try to bring you down. She is the '*****' of the group. She will make nasty comments and try to test your confidence. But once you show her that her attitude doesn't affect you having fun (you do this by laughing at her, telling her she dances like a 5th grader.. u get the point)- she will completely turn around her behavior. It's sort of like dr.jeckyl and mr.hyde.

This type of woman is usually very easy to bang once you have shown her that her sh!t tests don't work on you