"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Buddy System/Lunch... Questions...

DarkZero

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How would you go about asking a girl in class that you're getting to know to come with you and a friend of yours to lunch and to get her to bring a friend so it's not such an awkward situation (2 guys, 1 girl...).

also, considering the fact that lunch is a short period of time... where would the best place to go for the 30-40 minutes be?

thanks in advance :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dbot

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"Hey me and Bob are going to xxx for lunch. Care to join us?"

try that :p
 

DarkZero

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but what about mentioning her bringing a friend of her own...
 

Evil-Rom

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"You can bring a friend if you want."
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Why bring one of your friends? It kills the intimacy, just ask her "Hey wanna have lunch together tomorrow?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eventide

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"Hey why don't you and Susie meet me and my boy Wil at Steak 'N Shake tommorrow?"

Don't be coy, it isn't like you're asking her to be the surrogate mother of your child.
 
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