"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don Juan Wannabe

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Some crap has been going down lately...
I won't bore you with my story, tell you exactly what happened though as I will keep this topic broad.

How do you deal with drama. You know highschool BS, girls always saying **** behind peoples back then acting totally sweet to their faces and countless other crap-ola

I try to say out of it was much as possible but now that I hang around alot more girls I've unfortunately been pulled into more then a couple of these mud slinging contests.

Like right now I guess six girls hate me because I stood up for one of my best friends. She thought my best buddy liked one of our friends and asked him along with calling the girl he supposely liked a ***** and bashing her and ****. Well he stood up for her and said you know, that he thought she was cool. Well so she tells everyone how much he wants her including the girl she just totally badmouthed. So me and my buddy tell her the truth. What she actually said. Well now that lil **** totally denies what she said of course and accuses us of spreading rumors and now all her friends are on our ass.
 

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The best way to approach this is to first raise the question"Why would I make this up?" and then follow up with"I don't care believe what you want." This way you'll take the high moral ground and expose their desperate need to have people believe them.
 
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Yah I know I mean the older I get the more I hone my skill of not giving a rats @SS. Really has done wonders for me hah. I mean I guess I just plan on being indifferent even if they plan to $hit on me. I think letting them know that I don't care and being civil and totally honest all the while is the best way about it. That no matter what they say it doesn't change the truth and that I don't hate them, just think its all kind of pathetic. Then turn back to whatever im doing and not give them any more attention.

I mean I think the most dramatic people are the most empty. I mean these people don't do anything with their lives and so they need to fill there life up with BS.
 
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