"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BS about Fake BF need advise

TheGoldenStandard

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Ok so i ask this gurl out in my class over facebook (yea i know it sounds like a bad idea but i did it)

just a simple coffe date.

so she says and i quote

"hey yeah coffee sounds good. im not quite sure if you were trying to make it a date but i just want to let you know that im with someone back home so im really not looking into dating anybody. just wanted to be up front with you so if ya still want wed around 6 is a good time for me"

So i'm like hmmm i smell BS because for all intents and purposes she looks entirely single.


  • she is listed as single on her facebook profile.

  • she dosn't have ANY pictures of this guy in her photo albums plus no comments from this unamed guy.

  • Lastly she has "random play" listed as her interests

So i test her with "It's ok i'm not the jealous type.

anyway, weds is good. i'll call you before hand."

then she responds

"haha well the guy im with is the jealous type. as long as you're ok with goin as only friends then its alright"

DING DING DING, BS RADAR OVER LOAD

so i'm thinking. You mean to tell me you have this "jealous type" BF who not only allows you to list yourself single online but doesn't shoe up in ANY of your pictures.

::sigh::

So I get that she's not interested and that it's highly likely she jerkn' me around.

Now for the advice


1.Do I call her on her BS based on the info above and ditch date.

2.bow out gracefully and pay it no mind and ditch date.

or

3. Go through with it anyway so as not to lose a possible connect to other chicks and burn a potential bridge?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's the use in calling her out on BS? Tell me exactly where this gets you.

I've had women tell me all the time that they aren't looking for anything more than friendship. Where have the majority of these women ended up? You take a wild guess.

She's simply protecting herself from you. She doesn't know you all that well and she's probably not too high on the fact that you are putting moves on her before you know her. Go on the date, have fun and don't make serious conversation. If it's truly a good date, the truth about her will come out eventually.
 
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