Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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BS about Fake BF need advise

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Ok so i ask this gurl out in my class over facebook (yea i know it sounds like a bad idea but i did it)

just a simple coffe date.

so she says and i quote

"hey yeah coffee sounds good. im not quite sure if you were trying to make it a date but i just want to let you know that im with someone back home so im really not looking into dating anybody. just wanted to be up front with you so if ya still want wed around 6 is a good time for me"

So i'm like hmmm i smell BS because for all intents and purposes she looks entirely single.


  • she is listed as single on her facebook profile.

  • she dosn't have ANY pictures of this guy in her photo albums plus no comments from this unamed guy.

  • Lastly she has "random play" listed as her interests

So i test her with "It's ok i'm not the jealous type.

anyway, weds is good. i'll call you before hand."

then she responds

"haha well the guy im with is the jealous type. as long as you're ok with goin as only friends then its alright"

DING DING DING, BS RADAR OVER LOAD

so i'm thinking. You mean to tell me you have this "jealous type" BF who not only allows you to list yourself single online but doesn't shoe up in ANY of your pictures.

::sigh::

So I get that she's not interested and that it's highly likely she jerkn' me around.

Now for the advice


1.Do I call her on her BS based on the info above and ditch date.

2.bow out gracefully and pay it no mind and ditch date.

or

3. Go through with it anyway so as not to lose a possible connect to other chicks and burn a potential bridge?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What's the use in calling her out on BS? Tell me exactly where this gets you.

I've had women tell me all the time that they aren't looking for anything more than friendship. Where have the majority of these women ended up? You take a wild guess.

She's simply protecting herself from you. She doesn't know you all that well and she's probably not too high on the fact that you are putting moves on her before you know her. Go on the date, have fun and don't make serious conversation. If it's truly a good date, the truth about her will come out eventually.
 
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