Bruised Ego, need some encouragement.

[Swoop]

I have been hitting the clubs hard. I went 4 times a week. Yup I am trying my best to learn this stuff and am not afraid to go out there and die. But after a while of no real good success, the ego has taken some beating. So I gotta recuperate somehow and fight on. This game is tough. Btw, I have gotten kisses at the club and females I'm not attracted to into me but that's no success in my eyes. I want the better quality girls but damn they are tough to get. I actually see this ave looking older indian bald man with this fine ass girl in his arms. What the hell?????????? That's where the bruised ego come from. When you see a good looking guy win out and get the girl, it's cool. But damn, when an ugly guy beats you, it hurts like a low blow. Ouch...

So guys I need some encouragement, my ego took some beating tonight.

 

[lets_do_this]

hell that ugly guy could have been simply "rich".

doesnt necessarily mean he picked that girl right up from there.

she could have been a discreet prostitute picked up right before they when to the clubs.

idk man, but hang on there.

i'll do the same. i am very weak when it comes to cold approaches and have yet to experience more.

goodluck and wish me the same. keep going, ur doing fine. :woo:

 

[Swoop]

It's not just the indian man but more like you see all these fine *****es in the club and I mean alot of them are fine but when you can only get the attention of the ave girls (somtimes not even that), it hurts. But I have to be honest, I didn't approach as many as I would like, mainly because it's hard to find girls alone by themselves. They are always group together or already chatting with other guys. Tough. I have better success outside of the club cuz I get the 1 on 1 attention and I can go through a routine but in the club, it's like for the pros. But I want to be good at the club cuz that skill can help you anywhere.

 

[lets_do_this]

out of curiosity, how would u rate your self 1-10? (10 being the highest ofcourse)

 

[Swoop]

Originally posted by lets_do_this
out of curiosity, how would u rate your self 1-10? (10 being the highest ofcourse)

I'm a 7.5 Girls do think I'm cute, not all but I have been complemented before.

 

[Swoop]

Do you guys think I am going too fast for my own good? Perhaps I shouldn't rush things and jump into the deep end of the pool yet (clubbing) and learn the basics through the DJ Bootcamp first.

Yea I think I'll take things a little slower and work on one foundation at a time until it becomes part of me.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Review the Dj bible and tell us about ur apporach and conversation with the girls. That way the guys here to help you out. I have to say to myself. Apporaching women isn't hard for me but starting the conversation is where I need work. Lately I seem to have improvement in conversation.

To be successful you gonna to have to ketp trying and learning, right now your at failure because failure telling you that you are doing something wrong. Fix what you are doing, try different ways of apporaching women, remember their many ways to failure and 1 way to success.

HANG IN THEIR !!!!!!!!!!!! AND GOOD LUCK

 

[Holland]

You're not alone, my man. Just keep going, try, the best way you can. Sometimes the best isn't enough (yet!).
I know someone who's face is disfigured, but cause he's so good in communicating with women he's getting more results then me (rated 8), just because I'm less experienced.
Now, I sometimes think to myself, well that's not fair, but really, would it be fair if more women took me just because I looked better. Hell no, it would be even more unfair, since he can't do much about his looks, while I can improve in my sexual communication.
Keep your head up!