"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Bruce/Caitlynn Jenner

SmooveMooves

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2013
Messages
1,441
Reaction score
694
Location
NY
Surprised there isn't a thread already up on this topic. Apparently, becoming a transgender now is once again, regard for national news, praise, a number of awards and heavy support from Americans. Never mind the fact that with each new passing bill America is becoming unconstitutional by the day but that's beside the fact.

Don't have a problem with gays, but this attention on steroids they receive is any attention *****s dream. They always claim these things aren't a big issue but then America acts like its a national crisis whenever we get a new popular gay.

Oh, and just because I disagree with homosexuality doesn't make me a homophobe.

Thoughts anyone?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Jaylan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 8, 2011
Messages
3,119
Reaction score
133
Its national news only because of who Jenner was as an Olympic athlete, and husband and father of a famous tabloid family.

Im happy that Jenner is happy, but the only thing I disagree with was awarding Jenner the ESPY courage award.
 

ArcBound

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 15, 2009
Messages
1,525
Reaction score
114
Location
U.S. East
I find it quite weird that someone can identify themselves as a certain gender, when the only thing that makes it possible for them to even look remotely like that gender, is the continuous intake of female hormones and blocking of male hormones. And if he missed those continuous hormone injections what do you think will happen? His body still has the DNA to make a man, and will not surprisingly, steer him towards being a man again. Using continuos exogenous substances to make yourself a certain gender is quite funny in my opinion.

Bruce still doesn't have ovaries with eggs. He doesn't have a uterus where babies might potentially grow. He cannot have periods. He cannot revert puberty which made him taller, his voice deeper and gave him his bone structure. No matter how much he changes his outer appearance, the change is mostly superficial, with some changes in the brain (which is a whole other can of worms). All the photoshopping Vanity Fair does also doesn't change this. Go look up a picture of him without layers of photoshop.

He claims "for all intents and purposes I'm a woman". But for all of reality and facts he is a XY, programmed from birth to be a man. On an anatomical level, physiological level, cellular level, he will never be a woman.

I also can think of myself as whatever I wish. However if that clashes with reality, then ArcBound yields to reality, not the other way around. Our wants and desires, including Bruce's to become a woman, are still subject to reality.
 

Jaylan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 8, 2011
Messages
3,119
Reaction score
133
Sex and gender are not always seen as the same thing. While Jenner's sex may be male, she does identify as a woman with regard to gender. I won't pretend to completely understand it all...but I simply shrug and say "it doesnt negatively impact me...so be happy doing what you do"

That said, I do think that at Jenner's age, its a little late to be going through a gender change. Because all that plastic surgery and hormones doesnt seem health for an aging body thats also naturally slowing down hormone production.
 

SamTheHobit

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
1,514
Reaction score
95
Location
South Africa
It's an absolute abomination to God.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
5,523
Reaction score
5,707
Ruler said:
Don't bring religion into this. He's a grown ass... Person (not sure if to say man or woman) and can make it's own decision.

I just think it's ridiculous the national praise they get, as you say. Michael Sam is / was the worst, getting that stupid courage award or whatever and kissing his lover on national TV when drafted, when straight men didn't kiss their SO on TV. Same with Collins (forget his first name, the gay NBA player). Get over yourselves and quit making it a huge deal. I could care less what you do in the bedroom, but I don't want you to advertise it. Just like I don't want a straight guy telling me he's into SNM, I just don't care / want to know about it.
Gays are like women. They can't live without attention. "Gays rights" is basically the biggest attention wh0ring campaign in history (the PC term for attention whoring is spreading awareness).
 

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,559
Reaction score
4,122
Location
Inside her mind
These are the last days, the wickedness that has ensued in the years will be repaid with gnashing of the teeth in the pit of fire!
 

Cloudtopsun2100

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2004
Messages
340
Reaction score
42
Location
KC
I don't really care about this whole issue. Let him do what he wants, it will encourage other moist guys to do the same thing. They turn female, they stop clubbing, woo hoo less competition.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
Bokanovsky said:

Gays are like women. They can't live without attention. "Gays rights" is basically the biggest attention wh0ring campaign in history (the PC term for attention whoring is spreading awareness).
They are also Paranoid. They will shout you down at any Hint of Homophobia. THIS is how they gain more power than "Minorities"..they shout much more and at every turn much more and twist ANYTHING said about them into implications of homophobia. Gays (talking about it as well) were something very odd in the 40s, 50s, 60s. It Started somewhere Very Small, and now is mainstream, and Normalcy is now considered "very odd."
 

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
5,523
Reaction score
5,707
Poonani Maker said:
They are also Paranoid. They will shout you down at any Hint of Homophobia. THIS is how they gain more power than "Minorities"..they shout much more and at every turn much more and twist ANYTHING said about them into implications of homophobia. Gays (talking about it as well) were something very odd in the 40s, 50s, 60s. It Started somewhere Very Small, and now is mainstream, and Normalcy is now considered "very odd."
Speaking of gays and minorities, Michael Jackson wanted to be white and was widely ridiculed for it. So, a black man trapped in a white man's body is appalling while a white man trapped in a white woman's body is "brave". Interesting how it works.

Another interesting point demonstrated by Bruce Jenner is that the widely held believe that homosexuality/"gender identity" is genetically hardwired is clearly a crock of sh!t. This guy was a man all his life, was married three times, has three kids, was an Olympic champion and a race car driver. All of a sudden, at age 65, he decides to become a woman? Yeah, that sounds totally genetic. Clearly, the guy lost his marbles, had a mental breakdown, and instead of getting the mental help that he needs he is being celebrated as a hero. Truly a bizarre world that we live in.
 
Top