Brought the wild side of my exclusive out.. should I be concerned?

[SpazzAttackk]

Ive been exclusive for the first time in 5 years for about 3 months now. I took her V Card about a week ago. After multiple body quivering orgasms shes telling me her wild side is coming out and she wants to experiment and be a freak (Yes, she was a virgin she even bled) Were both early 20s, she comes from a religious family go figure.

Im completely excited and happy for this but at the same time wondering if shes gonna get tooo too wild and let it get to her head. What say ye, so suave? Ive turned a good girl bad.

 

[TheCWord]

"Everything's amazing and nobody's happy." -Louis C.K.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

For your sake, I'd like to be wrong here, but I'm going to guess many experienced guys here will agree with me. Here's how I see it:

First, go for it. Get lots of that freaky sex while its being offered and you both are young. Bang her good. Doggie, 69, lick her azz, anal if she's into it, toys, whatever. See what she's thinking about doing too. Have fun, get wild. It may be a while before you get another shot with a woman who says "let's get freaky" (not that a lot of them are not out there, just that chasing women goes through cycles).

Second, since you took her V-card and are going to be giving her all sorts of good, crazy sex, her brain is inevitably going to think this: "Wow, this is great. Sooo much fun!! But, I've only been with this one guy. I wonder what sex is like with other guys. I mean, just mathematically speaking, some guys are going to be worse than others and some guys are going to be much, much better than others. Since I've only been laid by one guy, I have no idea if I'm getting the good stuff now or if this is just tame compared to the skill of other men?" Trust me, this will go through her brain. In this day and age, women have so many men hitting on them and with the "hook-up culture" mentality we are going through, it's only a matter of time until your girl decides to sample the offerings out there.

Statistically, this is the probable scenario. It's not 100% guaranteed to happen, but it is much more likely than not.

A buddy several years ago in a relationship with a great woman, incredibly compatible with him, nice, fun to hang out with and all that, did exactly this to him. He felt ripped off, jilted, unjustifiably screwed over. Couldn't blame him. I'm sure many guys on this board have similar stories of either themselves or someone they know.

So, have as much fun now as you can. It'll end not too far down the road.

The upside is that YOU will also get some new experiences to take to the next woman that ends up in your bed. Plus, you'll get some additional jerk material for your imagination.

That's my two cents. Interested to see what other guys here have to tell you. Good luck!

 

[Kailex]

Too much over-analyzing going on here.

Why don't you just keep doing what you've done up until this point and gauge the situation as you go?

 

[Greasy Pig]

Just do what halfpua said. Ride this train to the last stop, stopping ALL stations.
Go porn star on her, learn a few tricks for future liaisons with other chicks and file that shyt away for some wank ammo.
She might even let you film some action which would be ace.

 

[TheWolfMan]

Could it be possible that since he took her v-card she will stay attached to him? I think halfpua is over analyzing the situation, just keep doing what you're doing, don't let it get to your head. If it doesn't work out then fine, but cross that bridge if and when you get to it. Get crazy with the girl, and make sure you pound her good. Make her not want to swing branches or go for other guys.

 

[5string]

Get really kinky with her while you can and enjoy it. Don't be surprised at some point if she wants to see what else is out there and wonder if she may be missing something.

 

[Mike32ct]

Get really kinky with her while you can and enjoy it. Don't be surprised at some point if she wants to see what else is out there and wonder if she may be missing something.

^This.

HalfPUA and Greasy Pig are also correct.

Enjoy until her more slutty gf(s) corrupt(s) her and convince(s) her to up her notch count.

Sure, she might surprise you and want to stay exclusive. But if she doesn't, don't take it personally.

 

[SpazzAttackk]

Ill see where it goes, Im a little concerned but I know what type of girl she is and what kind of a family she comes from.. which doesnt mean much in this day and age. I hope she doesn't disappoint me because she ll never find someone who can surpass the bar I set for her.

 

[devilkingx2]

as long as it doesn't start to involve animals or satanic rituals you're fine(unless you're into that sort of thing)

she'll probably start to ride the **** carousel after you break up(now that she knows what shes missing), but that's not really your problem

 

[jeffreylebowski]

Yeah the V-Card is tricky and I agree with other posters as to why.

It's funny how that works the other way with non-virgins. I dated a girl briefly who had been in an 8-year relationship. The second time we hooked up, she said she had never had an orgasm from intercourse. To say that she became attached at that point would be an understatement. I guess the point is, fantastic sex is more appreciated by those who have had a few partners than by those who don't know any better.

This girl might think that sex is always fantastic, as opposed to the rarer commodity that more experienced women know it to be.

 

[SpazzAttackk]

Ill ride this one out and let you guys know how it goes down the road.